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    Tomorrow I will hopefully overcome my fears and tell a girl myself that I really like her. How can I prepare for this especially if I am not a very confident person and very nervous. I get red, start sweating when I speak to girls and cannot do eye to eye contact.HELP PLEASE
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    Tomorrow I will hopefully overcome my fears and tell a girl myself that I really like her. How can I prepare for this especially if I am not a very confident person and very nervous. I get red, start sweating when I speak to girls and cannot do eye to eye contact.HELP PLEASE
    ok a tip with keeping eye contact. keep your face engaged with her face. you can break eye contact but just dont go looking down at the floor or to the side.

    secondly remember your goal but dont obsess over it to the point that you miss whats going on.

    feel out the conversation first.

    if all else fails. clarity is the key.

    another tip to help with your nerves is to drink something then throw it up before u go to see her. obviously brush your teeth and mouth wash after.

    its a known thing to help with anxiety. dunno the science behind it. but trust me it works.
 
 
 
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