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    So I'm gay and I went on a certain hooking up webiste and met a guy. We traded pictures and you know how it goes. Now he wants us to meet for the real thing. I'm a virgin and I already feel ashamed for sharing those kinds of pictures. I want to get over my virginity but I don't know how I'd feel after the act. I've only known him for 3 odd days. I'm 18 and him 24.

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    Don't do anything you don't want to do.
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    It's the same for anyone gay/straight/whatever using online dating, no shame in it for anyone.

    Stay safe (in all senses), If you're unsure then meet in a public place as opposed to their house.

    If you feel ashamed now then you're likely to feel ashamed 'after the act' too, that's not rare though among all sexualities.
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    (Original post by PythianLegume)
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    Don't do anything you don't want to do.
    The only reason I'm hesitating is that I'm afraid I'll feel like a dirty slut after and that I may feel more lonely than I was before. :don'tknow:
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    (Original post by Scumbaggio)
    It's the same for anyone gay/straight/whatever using online dating, no shame in it for anyone.

    Stay safe (in all senses), If you're unsure then meet in a public place as opposed to their house.

    If you feel ashamed now then you're likely to feel ashamed 'after the act' too, that's not rare though among all sexualities.
    I've always been paranoid and I feel like for some reason my pictures will spread to people I know. So it's as if I feel ashamed in advance.

    Oh, I thought it was only me haha. So why do people do it if they feel ashamed after? I mean it's better than a prostitute but still.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The only reason I'm hesitating is that I'm afraid I'll feel like a dirty slut after and that I may feel more lonely than I was before. :don'tknow:
    then don't do it. Stay at home and play jenga or something...
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    (Original post by Pride)
    then don't do it. Stay at home and play jenga or something...
    What's jenga? :laugh:

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