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Anonymous
by boyfriend was ment to come this december to meet me! it would be a whole year since i have met him last!! i feel so depresed and i miss him loads!! we mail each other about 6/7 time a day and texts but still i would really like to met him!! theres no chnace of me going to him because my parents would let me travel to another country were i havnt been before, can someone give me advice on this thanks so much!


You've summed this up perfectly with your first two words but just need a little adjustment to the spelling of the first word.

"Bye boyfriend".

Say byebye now.
Reply 2
it was ment to be MY and no its not going to be a bye!!
You feel depressed but use far too many exclamatories. It's about as believable as Ron Stoppable going to the doctors and being depressed.
Reply 4
You havnt seen him for a year! :eek:
these sorts of things make long distance relationships so hard. unless you can both travel to see each other you're being dependent on him to come to you, spending loads on flight n accom no doubt, every time. you need to think through whether you like him enough to allow yourself to be hurt whenever his plans change, or whether you can find away to get there or meet halfway. if you're going to see him once a year, it's really gonna hurt. and people change with time too; though in texts and emails he may be the same, in person he could have changed quite a bit.
Triplet1
You havnt seen him for a year! :eek:


It sounds like she hasn't even met him.
Reply 7
no its going to be a year next december that i wont get to see him, its not a year now!!
Anonymous
by boyfriend was ment to come this december to meet me! it would be a whole year since i have met him last!! i feel so depresed and i miss him loads!! we mail each other about 6/7 time a day and texts but still i would really like to met him!! theres no chnace of me going to him because my parents would let me travel to another country were i havnt been before, can someone give me advice on this thanks so much!

Don't worry - sometimes men take a little longer than their partners so you won't alway "meet" each other at the same time.
Reply 9
how have you coped not seeing him for soooo long?
Reply 10
Triplet1
You havnt seen him for a year! :eek:


that is shocking.
what kinda of relationship is that?

Sazarina88
It sounds like she hasn't even met him.


yeah ti does sound that way. how can you go out with someone youve never met? :confused:
i knew someone who did that and was planning to marry them as well :eek:
it lasted a few months and it didnt work out. he never ended up meeting her
Reply 11
no i have met him!! we've known eachother for 5 years! its just that he did go and now he wont be coming due to some family problems and i miss him like hell!!
Reply 12
but how can you have a proper relationship when you hardly see each other?
Reply 13
theres alway the phoning and the texting the mailing and chatting!!
however its just that i miss him now and so does he, i feel depresed!! someone help!!
Reply 14
theres alway the phoning and the texting the mailing and chatting!
however its just that i miss him now and so does he, i feel depresed!! someone help!!
Reply 15
does sound to me like an interent relationship!:eek: Are you sure you want to meet him?

It sounds liek your boyfriend doesn't really want to meet you so maybe it's worth talking to him and think about moving on? Sorry to be harsh but I'm struggling not to see my boyfriend for 3 and half weeks (and so far only 3 and half days have past!)
Reply 16
Anonymous
theres alway the phoning and the texting the mailing and chatting!!however its just that i miss him now and so does he, i feel depresed!! someone help!!


yeh but you can do that with a friend, what about he "relationship boyfriend and girlfriend" part... kissing etc
AN of course your gona miss him you havnt seen him for ages.... how far away are we talking here?? :confused:
Reply 17
Triplet1
but how can you have a proper relationship when you hardly see each other?


thats true.
i cant imagine being away from my boyfriend for nearly a year.
id go insane or something.
Reply 18
i know but like i said we have been together for 5 years so kissing etc has been done, its a year i mean we love each other and theres more than just physical ways to show it, its been about 8 months now, well gona be 8 months
Reply 19
How old are you?
But people change and a year is such a long time both of you have probably changed and emails dont really show you a person.