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HeStoleMyCrayon
maybe coz they love each other? ok so long distance relationships are difficult to maintain and many fall apart, but if it's lasted so long they must think there is something worth working hard to keep. by telling the OP that her relationship is destined to fail will just put doubts in her mind, which is one of the most damaging things to long distance relationships and may cause its break up when it really didnt have to. she's 16 now, so in a couple of years she'll be more able to go see him, and there will be other opportunities for him to come over to see her. it's tough, but if it's what they really want then good luck to them all the way.
It's true though, they'll change more when they go to university and might grow apart. (
)Reply 41
thanks everyone i mean the last 2 posts really did help or i was more depressed than ever!!
when i do met him i'll make sure hes the guy i really love and is exactly the way he is in mails lol
thanks eveyone!! thanks a lot!!
when i do met him i'll make sure hes the guy i really love and is exactly the way he is in mails lol
thanks eveyone!! thanks a lot!!
Reply 43
thanks ya i gess there an idea!
well on day the family will get to know about it and thats also another worry but both of us can see when it comes to that
but thanks again eveyone! it really did help!!
well on day the family will get to know about it and thats also another worry but both of us can see when it comes to that
but thanks again eveyone! it really did help!!
Reply 44
Triplet1
Your 16!
She's actually 15.
Reply 45
Hey...
OK, you may want to take my advice or you may think its bull s*** in which case ignore everything I've said... One year is a long time, and anything can happen in that year. If I were you I would end it right now. My boyfriend went abroad for 6 weeks to visit his family and we were together for over 4 years, and he ended up finding someone else and is going to get engaged to her soon... Now I'm not saying that all boyfriends are stupid b******* like mine obviously was and I'm not saying that you guys don't love each other either...but me and my boyfriend were literally the bestest of friends...we would speak every night for hours, we had lots of fun together when we went out, our sex life was incredible and most of all we cared about each other...its obvious that we did because we lasted for a long time...but people change and circumstances change...you seem like a mature girl who loves her bf but you're still young, and the last thing I want is for the incident that happened to me to happen to you, because only I know what I'm going through and I've literally lost the will to live...And long- distance relationships are also hard to maintain...
I hope you'll find my advice useful...Good luck!
OK, you may want to take my advice or you may think its bull s*** in which case ignore everything I've said... One year is a long time, and anything can happen in that year. If I were you I would end it right now. My boyfriend went abroad for 6 weeks to visit his family and we were together for over 4 years, and he ended up finding someone else and is going to get engaged to her soon... Now I'm not saying that all boyfriends are stupid b******* like mine obviously was and I'm not saying that you guys don't love each other either...but me and my boyfriend were literally the bestest of friends...we would speak every night for hours, we had lots of fun together when we went out, our sex life was incredible and most of all we cared about each other...its obvious that we did because we lasted for a long time...but people change and circumstances change...you seem like a mature girl who loves her bf but you're still young, and the last thing I want is for the incident that happened to me to happen to you, because only I know what I'm going through and I've literally lost the will to live...And long- distance relationships are also hard to maintain...
I hope you'll find my advice useful...Good luck!
Reply 46
wow okay, im so sorry to hear that!!
okay i can understand were your coming from and no i dont think its a load of bull****, i will take that on board but i dont want to end this because it "might" happen to me also and know long distance relationships are like hell hard to keep, because daa i mean i'm in one of them but i'm really thankful that people here have made me realise that theres a very haogh chance of it to end and im thankful to all of you!!
i will keep what you said in mind and not put all my hope on this however i do love him like crazy and i dont just want to end it because it *might* not happen
but thanks for you advice!!
okay i can understand were your coming from and no i dont think its a load of bull****, i will take that on board but i dont want to end this because it "might" happen to me also and know long distance relationships are like hell hard to keep, because daa i mean i'm in one of them but i'm really thankful that people here have made me realise that theres a very haogh chance of it to end and im thankful to all of you!!
i will keep what you said in mind and not put all my hope on this however i do love him like crazy and i dont just want to end it because it *might* not happen
but thanks for you advice!!
Reply 48
hay that was a typo its ment to be MY
Reply 50
okay i dont get it lol
Reply 52
i'm afraid this is one relationship that will just not work unfortunatly.
Reply 53
i wouldnt be so sure!!
and ya i know i use a lot of exclaimation marks
and ya i know i use a lot of exclaimation marks
Reply 56
stop going of topic!
Reply 58
Anonymous
wow okay, im so sorry to hear that!!
okay i can understand were your coming from and no i dont think its a load of bullsh*t, i will take that on board but i dont want to end this because it "might" happen to me also and know long distance relationships are like hell hard to keep, because daa i mean i'm in one of them but i'm really thankful that people here have made me realise that theres a very haogh chance of it to end and im thankful to all of you!!
i will keep what you said in mind and not put all my hope on this however i do love him like crazy and i dont just want to end it because it *might* not happen
but thanks for you advice!!
okay i can understand were your coming from and no i dont think its a load of bullsh*t, i will take that on board but i dont want to end this because it "might" happen to me also and know long distance relationships are like hell hard to keep, because daa i mean i'm in one of them but i'm really thankful that people here have made me realise that theres a very haogh chance of it to end and im thankful to all of you!!
i will keep what you said in mind and not put all my hope on this however i do love him like crazy and i dont just want to end it because it *might* not happen
but thanks for you advice!!
Its ok babe... I don't want u to end it but I just don't want any girl to go through what has happened to me...Its so depressing
... If you do want to talk to someone let me know and I can reveal my identity to u...(somehow!) and we can talk!
pumpkin7
argh. you give me the impression of someone on crack with those exclaimation marks.
find a boyfriend in your own country and get on with it.
find a boyfriend in your own country and get on with it.
i kinda agree with this.
at least if you find a guy in this country it would be alot easier to see him.
im kinda in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who lives in this country so i can understand how the relstionship might be hard.
although when my boyfriends at home from uni, he only lives an hour and 20 mins away on the train which isnt bad so its possible for me to see him and he goes to a uni thats alot closer to me, so it only takes half an hour and i can stay over as much as i want.
it does help that hes not too far away.
long distance relationships can work if you want them too but it does help if you get to see eachother often.
ive been going out with my befriend for 2 years today
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