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hes not coming!!!

Reply 60

b9muslove

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Anonymous

stop going of topic!

Sorry!!!

Reply 61

Anonymous #1

OP

Anonymous

Its ok babe... I don't want u to end it but I just don't want any girl to go through what has happened to me...Its so depressing :frown:

... If you do want to talk to someone let me know and I can reveal my identity to u...(somehow!) and we can talk!

hay!! actually that would be great if i could talk to you about this!! it would really help!! hummm but theres only one problem the identity bit, humm okay fi you ever do get this massage just contact sukhi31 and ill get it from there!! thanks again and hopefully i would get in contact soon!!

Reply 62

Helenia

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Anonymous

thanks ya i gess there an idea!
well on day the family will get to know about it and thats also another worry but both of us can see when it comes to that
but thanks again eveyone! it really did help!! :smile:

You've been together 5 years and your parents don't know? How were you planning on keeping it secret when he did come over to this country?

Look, keep it going if you want to, but if he's permanently in another country, and you're in the UK for the foreseeable future with no means of getting abroad easily, I don't see much point in it. The fact is you could well have split up by now if you were together, in holding everything together by e-mail and MSN you could just be clinging to the way things once were.

Reply 63

Glory

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It isn't a relationship if you ask me, a relationship is something you keep working at. You cant work at something you hardly experience, no cuddles or kissing. Just makes it feel manufactored, i grew out of internet relationships a long time ago, the real thing is much better.

Reply 64

princess-anna

LOL the title of this thread totally threw me off course, thought it was some wierd request for sexual pleasuring advice!!!

good luck with ur problem!!!

xxx

Reply 65

HeStoleMyCrayon

Glory

It isn't a relationship if you ask me, a relationship is something you keep working at. You cant work at something you hardly experience, no cuddles or kissing. Just makes it feel manufactored, i grew out of internet relationships a long time ago, the real thing is much better.

ok for a start her relationship is long distance, not an internet relationship. you'reimplying they met online when they didn't. and secondly, how can you say you cant work at it? if anything you have to put a hell of a lot more effort in to keep LDRs going than normal ones, and just coz u dont have kisses and cuddles doesnt mean you hardly experience anything. your definition of a relationship in this situation is just wrong.

Reply 66

slk999

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i think i read the title wrong :eek:

Reply 67

Sheen

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ninjapanda

i think i read the title wrong :eek:

haha i think nearly everyone has

Reply 68

Triplet1

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HeStoleMyCrayon

ok for a start her relationship is long distance,
not an internet relationship. you'reimplying they met online when they didn't. and secondly, how can you say you cant work at it? if anything you have to put a hell of a lot more effort in to keep LDRs going than normal ones, and just coz u dont have kisses and cuddles doesnt mean you hardly experience anything. your definition of a relationship in this situation is just wrong.

It basically is a internet relationship, they see each other once a year.
Yes i agree you have to put in loads more effort. But kisses and cuddles do mean alot and you need them in a relationship!
ok i just looked up the defintion of a relationship:

The condition or fact of being related; connection or association.
Connection by blood or marriage; .
A particular type of connection existing between people related to or having dealings with each other: has a close relationship with his siblings.
A romantic or sexual involvement.

Reply 69

HeStoleMyCrayon

kisses and cuddles do help a hell of a lot, but you dont need them for a relationship to stay afloat. if they have everything else that consitutes a relationship but not the physical side, does that mean they should break up? even if they accept the fact they can't kiss and cuddle but may well be able to in the future? i dont think so.

Reply 70

sahsum

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Save your money and go visit him. Phone your parents when you get there, and if you have any siblings tell them to film your parents reaction during the phone call. Do it you know it will be fun x x x

Reply 71

Ron Stoppable

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sahsum

Save your money and go visit him. Phone your parents when you get there, and if you have any siblings tell them to film your parents reaction during the phone call. Do it you know it will be fun x x x