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    If you have read my previous posts, today I told a girl that I like her ( went ok, but no eye contact and very, very un-confident). I told her that we need to get to know eachother and she asked me are you on work experience this week or you staying in school. I said im in school mostly free like her. Does that mean she will speak to me? Also what questions should I ask her?
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    Never tell a girl you like her. Ever....maybe on your wedding day just once, but never again.
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    (Original post by moneymania999)
    If you have read my previous posts, today I told a girl that I like her ( went ok, but no eye contact and very, very un-confident). I told her that we need to get to know eachother and she asked me are you on work experience this week or you staying in school. I said im in school mostly free like her. Does that mean she will speak to me? Also what questions should I ask her?
    You really should deal with your lack of confidence before pursuing romantic relationships.
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    (Original post by TheTranshumanist)
    You really should deal with your lack of confidence before pursuing romantic relationships.
    Wrong. If you do this you just get confident in every other aspect of life except here and it becomes a bit of an albatross. The only way to get more confident is to talk to girls.
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    (Original post by Wattsy)
    Wrong. If you do this you just get confident in every other aspect of life except here and it becomes a bit of an albatross. The only way to get more confident is to talk to girls.
    I disagree. If you gain more confidence in general, you will find situations such as this far easier to deal with. I'm not saying that he shouldn't talk to girls at all, but it's obviously not a good idea to be pursuing a relationship with a girl when 1) You're struggling to even make eye contact with her, 2) You need to ask TSR for advice on how to speak to her.
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    Let me guess, you're not unconfident, you're don't have a low self-esteem, you don't have social issues, you're just shy and slightly introverted and you never know what to say?

    I suffer/ed the same thing. I found this website was great at providing open ended question ideas to ask and start a really good conversation. Forget about about looking silly or not knowing what to say just follow these steps;

    1. Say "hello"
    2. Smile
    3. Ask one of those open ended questions.
    4. Enjoy the conversation that will follow.
 
 
 
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