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    Hi guys

    So I guess I need some advice on a tiny issue I have :eek::eek:
    I have this group of friends who used to be really cool and I used to really love be around them , so much that we planned an holiday together in Spain after our exams
    However they've recently fallen in a bad crowd (?) , doing hard drugs , getting wasted all the time , having sex with each other all the time ( I am serious ) and I kinda regret signing up for the holiday..
    My parents on the other hand are pushing me to go , they say I can politely turn down the drugs if they insist on me getting wasted and they say I will regret having missed the experience..

    So your advice ?
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    (Original post by CAROLAL1)
    Hi guys

    So I guess I need some advice on a tiny issue I have :eek::eek:
    I have this group of friends who used to be really cool and I used to really love be around them , so much that we planned an holiday together in Spain after our exams
    However they've recently fallen in a bad crowd (?) , doing hard drugs , getting wasted all the time , having sex with each other all the time ( I am serious ) and I kinda regret signing up for the holiday..
    My parents on the other hand are pushing me to go , they say I can politely turn down the drugs if they insist on me getting wasted and they say I will regret having missed the experience..

    So your advice ?
    No, I wouldn't go. You'd end up hating it. You'd fall into awkward situations and you won't be happy.
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    No. That is definitely the wrong crowd, I agree with you.

    Don't go on a holiday with people you'll feel uncomfortable around. You will be a long, long distance from any comfort, except in your own hotel room which is a complete waste of time.
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    (Original post by CAROLAL1)
    Hi guys

    So I guess I need some advice on a tiny issue I have :eek::eek:
    I have this group of friends who used to be really cool and I used to really love be around them , so much that we planned an holiday together in Spain after our exams
    However they've recently fallen in a bad crowd (?) , doing hard drugs , getting wasted all the time , having sex with each other all the time ( I am serious ) and I kinda regret signing up for the holiday..
    My parents on the other hand are pushing me to go , they say I can politely turn down the drugs if they insist on me getting wasted and they say I will regret having missed the experience..

    So your advice ?
    Well if they really are like that now then it is a bit obvious that they will all be behaving the same way on holiday and you will be left out or even worse, you might start adopting their dangerous and stupid behaviours.

    So unless there is someone else who is like you in that they are not getting involved with that stuff then you should still go since you can hang out with that person, but if there isn't anyone else then I would suggest you don't go.
 
 
 
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