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    She lost her virginity to me at age 15 and is now 16. We broke up in March, she got a new boyfriend within a week (they'd been talking behind my back when we were together). She dumped him in May, and had a friends with benefits between then and about two weeks ago, when she got a girlfriend (she's bi).

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    I wouldn't say she's a slut but she seems to be quite busy for a sixteen year old
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She lost her virginity to me at age 15 and is now 16. We broke up in March, she got a new boyfriend within a week (they'd been talking behind my back when we were together). She dumped him in May, and had a friends with benefits between then and about two weeks ago, when she got a girlfriend (she's bi).

    What do you think?
    Generally once someone is your ex, their sexual progress/history is none of your business any more

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    Jelly she's getting laid more than you?
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    (Original post by Green Velvet)
    Generally once someone is your ex, their sexual progress/history is none of your business any more

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    Jelly she's getting laid more than you?
    no, because getting laid isn't anything to be proud of for girls
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    no, because getting laid isn't anything to be proud of for girls
    I think it's pretty childish for anyone to be "proud" that they're having sex. It's just sex. Stop being so judgemental. Also, your response was ignorant of the point; her sex life is none of your business.
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    Someone's jealous that she moved on quickly while he's still talking about her on the internet!
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    (Original post by sliceofcake)
    I think it's pretty childish for anyone to be "proud" that they're having sex. It's just sex. Stop being so judgemental. Also, your response was ignorant of the point; her sex life is none of your business.
    It's something for men to be proud of as they have to actually do something. What if she told me, then it would be my business wouldn't it.
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    It can be hard - but try and forget about her and move on. The sooner you forget about her the sooner you get your own life back

    Also, yes, she's a slut
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    (Original post by redferry)
    Someone's jealous that she moved on quickly while he's still talking about her on the internet!
    please just answer the question rather than throwing ad hominems around
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's something for men to be proud of as they have to actually do something. What if she told me, then it would be my business wouldn't it.
    Don't flatter yourself. You just put it in. If you have a girl who just flops there for you to do the work then you can hardly consider it any good. And while she may have told you, you don't have to take it any further than that. She told you something, just go about your day.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    no, because getting laid isn't anything to be proud of for girls
    ...or anybody else. Its just a thing... It doesn't require pride or shame.
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    (Original post by sliceofcake)
    Don't flatter yourself. You just put it in. If you have a girl who just flops there for you to do the work then you can hardly consider it any good. And while she may have told you, you don't have to take it any further than that. She told you something, just go about your day.
    I'm not talking about the act itself, I'm talking about getting into a position where you're with someone who is willing to have sex with you... which is clearly harder for men.

    I don't have to take it further, but I'm interested to hear people's opinions.
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    It's none of your business, as a matter of fact unless it's with a family member/underage/animal it's nobodies business. And no she is not a slut, as such childish labels don't and shouldn't really exist in a modern society.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    please just answer the question rather than throwing ad hominems around
    No she is not. Happy?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's something for men to be proud of as they have to actually do something. What if she told me, then it would be my business wouldn't it.
    Maybe she got fed up of you expecting her to just lie there?
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    (Original post by Starrydog)
    Maybe she got fed up of you expecting her to just lie there?
    See previous reply:

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not talking about the act itself, I'm talking about getting into a position where you're with someone who is willing to have sex with you... which is clearly harder for men.

    I don't have to take it further, but I'm interested to hear people's opinions.
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    (Original post by redferry)
    No she is not. Happy?
    Is 4 sexual partners in a 5 month period not enough to be considered a slut?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    Hmmm that's interesting, not really sure what to say to that
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    No and it is not any of your business what she does now you are broken up. You seem bitter, do you want people to **** off your ex?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    no, because getting laid isn't anything to be proud of for girls
    'for girls'? you just completely invalidated your entire post. so a guy can get laid and be proud but a girl can't?

    it does not make a girl a slut to like sex - in fact , i don't believe anyone is a 'slut' , and her sexual history is neither any of your concern , nor ours. deal with it on your own and stop whining like a baby. good on her.
 
 
 
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