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    Hi everyone!

    I've started getting closer to a lad from school. We're making out and stuff. It's great, I really like him and everything. We're both really happy with what's happening, and we both want things to go further.

    We're both supposed to be going to uni in September - hopefully the same uni. I'm just worrying that if we get together, we won't last more than a few weeks.

    We've discussed how we'd like things to turn out, we're just going to see what happens - that's fine by me! But from how things are at the minute, I think we're going to get together. I guess I'm just nervous about how it'll work.

    Anyone got any experience of continuing a relationship with someone who is going to the same uni? I don't want either of us to feel too held down by the relationship at uni, because I know it'd be something we'd regret forever. But if we're both happy - could it work?

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    (Original post by Crazy Lady!!!)
    Hi everyone!

    I've started getting closer to a lad from school. We're making out and stuff. It's great, I really like him and everything. We're both really happy with what's happening, and we both want things to go further.
    You're having fun, thats good but be safe.

    We're both supposed to be going to uni in September - hopefully the same uni. I'm just worrying that if we get together, we won't last more than a few weeks.

    We've discussed how we'd like things to turn out, we're just going to see what happens - that's fine by me! But from how things are at the minute, I think we're going to get together. I guess I'm just nervous about how it'll work.
    Does he want to be in a relationship at University if you end up in the same one and is he willing to have a LDR (make him think of the consequences e.g. He cannot get drunk on Freshers Week and use it as an excuse to get with someone else. He has to make an effort to keep in contact (if it ends up being a LDR).

    Anyone got any experience of continuing a relationship with someone who is going to the same uni? I don't want either of us to feel too held down by the relationship at uni, because I know it'd be something we'd regret forever. But if we're both happy - could it work?
    Just curious how far in the relationship are you guys? How long in months?

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    Thanks for your reply

    We will be safe

    Hopefully it wouldn't be an LDR, we've both firmed the same uni and it's our only choice for both of us. I don't think I could sustain an LDR, if that happened I think we'd break up so that we ended on good terms.

    We've known each other for years, but we've only sort of been together a couple of months.
 
 
 
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