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    There's this girl I like in my friendship group and she's known this for quite a long time. I've been out with her numerous times and we've kissed numerous times, but with uni round the corner she says she doesn't want a relationship, and I agree with this. She says that we should just stay good friends and that I'm a good guy etc, but in all honesty this is something that I wouldn't be happy with.

    I think she may still like me from what I've been told, and if we just stayed as friends during the summer, whenever we hung out as a group there would always be that slight awkwardness between us. Now, neither of us want a relationship, but then again I don't want to just be friends...

    Should I just accept the "being friends" thing and try and move on, or is there anything else I can do?

    Any advice would be appreciated.
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    There's this girl I like in my friendship group and she's known this for quite a long time. I've been out with her numerous times and we've kissed numerous times, but with uni round the corner she says she doesn't want a relationship, and I agree with this. She says that we should just stay good friends and that I'm a good guy etc, but in all honesty this is something that I wouldn't be happy with.

    I think she may still like me from what I've been told, and if we just stayed as friends during the summer, whenever we hung out as a group there would always be that slight awkwardness between us. Now, neither of us want a relationship, but then again I don't want to just be friends...

    Should I just accept the "being friends" thing and try and move on, or is there anything else I can do?

    Any advice would be appreciated.

    Just stay friends - you have 2 months or so until uni. You will still be friends when you go off and friends when you regroup at Christmas. In the meantime you are going to meet lots of lovely girls at uni. You said it yourself - "neither of us wants a relationship"
 
 
 
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