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    I'm a 21 year old South Asian girl and my friends look down on me when I tell them about the pre-marital relationships I've been in. I've also slept around a bit but I don't see any reason to be looked down upon for this.

    I have needs, I want to be desiiiiiiiiired.
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    (Original post by Stuffme)
    I'm a 21 year old South Asian girl and my friends look down on me when I tell them about the pre-marital relationships I've been in. I've also slept around a bit but I don't see any reason to be looked down upon for this.

    I have needs, I want to be desiiiiiiiiired.
    Firstly there is absolutely nothing wrong with pre-marital relationships, nor sleeping around. However I'd worry that the fact you sleep around to feel validated and desired is something you should definitely address as it'll be a slippery slope.

    Sleep around because you enjoy it and want to, not for a need of feeling desired, because you will not feel desired when you wake up and they don't want anything to do with you!
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    You have to put the 'desi', back into desire

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    (Original post by yo radical one)
    You have to put the 'desi', back into desire

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    Made me lol
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    (Original post by Stuffme)
    I'm a 21 year old South Asian girl and my friends look down on me when I tell them about the pre-marital relationships I've been in. I've also slept around a bit but I don't see any reason to be looked down upon for this.

    I have needs, I want to be desiiiiiiiiired.
    Did your friends grew up in Asia too? Because I heard that in some cultures doing that (y'know) is frowned upon so maybe it's just their background showing.

    I have some friends living in South Asia and most of them are a bit leery and a bit prejudice against those but they're generally nice people but because of their upbringing they could be a bit like that.

    Personally, I think it's your choice but I draw a line on one-night stands but still, y'know, you do have free will but be careful, I guess.


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    (Original post by Stuffme)
    I'm a 21 year old South Asian girl and my friends look down on me when I tell them about the pre-marital relationships I've been in. I've also slept around a bit but I don't see any reason to be looked down upon for this.

    I have needs, I want to be desiiiiiiiiired.
    There's nothing wrong with pre-marital relationships imo. Or with sleeping around. I'm south Asian myself and have been in a few relationships myself..

    Just be careful I guess... I don't know why your friends look down on you tho.. I'm sure they'd want what you want too but just act like that? no idea...

    I just rabbled a load of s*** anyway...
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    (Original post by Stuffme)
    Hey. don't be sad.

    I like my girl experienced. PM me xo
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    Welcome to western society, we're very liberal, easy going and trouble free around here .
 
 
 
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