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clear obsession

i'm clearly obsessed and i need help!!

when i see that my bf is online i really want him to mail/chat to me!! i wanna give him his own space and a chance to breath but i'm clearly obsessed, its not also that but i'm scred he might develope feelings for him ex!! :frown: well they never went out but he had a crush on her and i'm scred he might develope them back, i seriously dont like this i mean when i just think about her i get a feeling as if someone punched me in my stomach! also hes showed me her pic and he is so preety i mean i probably come nothing close!! i'm really scared and me being obsessed on the comp might also make him feel put of by me!! i would really need some advice or help thanks!
and sorry if anyone thought this would me a sexually related thread
He is with you now not with his ex, just have faith him in otherwise you might drive him away.
Reply 2
He is your boyfriend so stop worrying about his ex that he never even went out with! He obviously has feelings for you otherwise he wouldnt be going out with you!
If you really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and i'm sure he will reasure you that he wants to be with you.

:biggrin:
Reply 3
Anonymous
i'm clearly obsessed and i need help!!
when i see that my bf is online i really want him to mail/chat to me!!


i dont tink you're obsessed. just talk to him.
Reply 4
depends how long he stays with his old crush i gess
Reply 5
this is what is called being clingy! basically, you just have to relax. there's no real reason to be jealous or curious about the ex-crush, from what i know (which is little, i know).
there's no harm in saying 'hi' when you see him online, but don't go crazy if he doesn't reply or only chats for a bit.

how often do you see him?
Reply 6
Chill out! There is noting more off putting or more likely to drive him away than you being clingy and obsessive. You may feel this way but there's no way you should let him know. I'm not syaing play games but when you're with a guy it's always best to keep them guessing as to how much you actually like them. Be a bit cool and mysterious. You freaking out about an ex-crush is not gonna make him want you any more!
Reply 7
well i see him like 2 times a week
Reply 8
Anonymous
well i see him like 2 times a week

well if you only see him two times a week whats wrong with wanting to talk to him everytime he comes online? theres nothing wrong with it.
whenever my boyfriend comes on i want to talk to him too and we do talk if we're both online
Reply 9
its not that it just that sometimes hes online while doing work and stuff not that he wants to chat to anyone but just keep an eye out, i dono i should really obsessed and clingy as eveyone puts it, we every friday or sat so its a bit weird
Reply 10
to be honest i dont think you seem clingy or obsessed.
Reply 11
well why dont you ask him before u guys speek to much if hes bussy?
Just talk to him about him and explain you don't want to seem clingy. And remind yourself it's probably PMT too most of the time :wink: