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    i was hanging out earlier this year in the states with a guy who i met through an american friend. he asked me two or three times when i'll be visiting america again. we haven't spoken after that day, but was there a meaning behind his question? :confused:

    i know he's really shy, but when we were together he asked loads of questions and came across somewhat interested. :confused:

    i'm too scared to strike up convo with him randomly because he's quite blunt over text/messages.
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    Does it matter? Do you want some awful long distance relationship?

    That being said, I tend to have a rule that I don't arrange to meet up with women while I'm still with them. So, if I'm on a date I won't arrange another date while we're both still on the first one - it's just too positive and is too strong an indication that I've already made my mind up.

    The guy was probably at least a little bit interested in seeing you without any clothes on because he was trying to confirm that a future meeting would take place.
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    (Original post by NebII)
    Does it matter? Do you want some awful long distance relationship?

    That being said, I tend to have a rule that I don't arrange to meet up with women while I'm still with them. So, if I'm on a date I won't arrange another date while we're both still on the first one - it's just too positive and is too strong an indication that I've already made my mind up.

    The guy was probably at least a little bit interested in seeing you without any clothes on because he was trying to confirm that a future meeting would take place.
    i would happily be in a LDR with this guy… although he asked me when i'll be back, he hasn't made an effort to speak to me… not that he did beforehand either, so i'm a little confused to say the least
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    Sorry but sometime you just have to forget it
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    You had one job... Just answer the question, hardly university challenge
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    (Original post by Rikudou_Sennin)
    Sorry but sometime you just have to forget it
    it's hard to forget though...
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    (Original post by PrincePauper)
    You had one job... Just answer the question, hardly university challenge
    huh?
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    If its bugging you just message him ...either way you have nothing to lose


    and alot of guys come across as blunt via text
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    (Original post by PrincePauper)
    You had one job... Just answer the question, hardly university challenge
    U wot m8?

    who is this aimed at
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    it's hard to forget though...
    I understand sweetie. such is life :console:
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    (Original post by Rikudou_Sennin)
    I understand sweetie. such is life :console:
    i'll just wait in vain til i see him again, i guess
 
 
 
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