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    So, I've just found my Dad, who I've never met, on Facebook. I know it is him as I have a picture of him from when I was born. I have sent him a request and a copy of the picture I had and he has confirmed that he is, in fact my Dad!

    I don't really know what to do now, I haven't told my mum that I was looking for him let alone that I have found him. She wasn't too fond of him so I don't think she'd be too happy about me talking to him but she doesn't have any right to say whether or not I can talk to him.

    And then what am I supposed to say to him? Do I just have a regular conversation, attack him for not being there, get all soppy and say I'm so happy I've found him or what? I don't even know what I'm feeling! He's not even living that far away from me and I know the neighbourhood he's living in. No idea what to do/say!


    tl;dr found my Dad, what to say?
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    If you feel like talking to him. And if you could get some answers out of him. Then go to his place or ask him to come over to your house and have a chat. It's your choice. You can choose to ignore him or talk to him.
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    Tell him about yourself, what you've done up until now and what you hope to do in the future.
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    This is weird lol Say "Sup foo! Wurr ya bin homey?!"
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    I wouldn't rush into meeting him. Take it slowly, establish if getting to know each other is actually something he wants to do too.

    I think you should tell your mother before you meet him though.
 
 
 
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