My Best Friend's Annoying Me Soooooo MuchWatch
We're both 15 and recently i've noticed how self centred he can be. I never feel like i can talk to him about my problems because he'll just laugh and assume i'll get over it and when i look upset he just tells me to stop being grumpy. He often says quite hurtful things to me but our relationship is kind of jokey and harsh as we're really close and can say whatever we like to each other most of the time, but recently it's started to hurt me the way that he's been saying it. i've told him that i was upset with him and how i feel like our relationship is a bit one sided sometimes as i always say sorry to him after an argument even if it's that i'm the one who's upset and then he doesn't care when i tell him that he hurt my feelings. I understand that some of these little arguments we get into are silly but sometimes the things he says really upset me. i don't know what to do because i love him so much and i don't want to lose him as a friend. is it just that as it's the end of the year we are getting a bit sick of each other ? we never usually dislike each other.
What I wanted to say is that he probably views your as the best mate as well. But that sometimes means he would say and do all sorts of things to you, some of which may annoy you quite badly. He's 15 and it's an age many things happen. He may appear to be cool with everythings but the way he changed may indicate he's got something going on there. I would tell him my feelings have been hurt but would always be there to support him when he needs it.