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    Please people with varied relationship experience only.

    I've noticed all the girls I've dated who were very loyal were also monumental pains in my arse. very naggy, very petty, very hostile, very difficult.

    However I've noticed the girls I've dated who were very pleasant to be around, very easy going, very cool to chill with, were also promiscuous and had been unfaithful to pretty much all their partners.


    has anyone else noticed this pattern?
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    No. Do you really think you've dated enough girls to have a reasonable sample size?
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    Interesting point, now I think I've sort of noticed this - more from other people than my own relationships. I guess if someone's more easy-going with you they may be looking for something more casual, hence they're relaxes?
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    (Original post by Mankytoes)
    No. Do you really think you've dated enough girls to have a reasonable sample size?
    more than 3 is better.
    id say 3 relationships would be fair enough.
    2 is pushing it.
    1 nothing to compare.

    i have had 8 relationships.
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    Sounds like stereotyping mysogenistic nonsense to me.
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    (Original post by Mick.w)
    more than 3 is better.
    id say 3 relationships would be fair enough.
    2 is pushing it.
    1 nothing to compare.

    i have had 8 relationships.
    I don't know if you've ever done any academic research, but that's too small a sample to draw conclusions from, could easily be coincidence. I mean both your groups are extremes, surely most girls are in between?
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    (Original post by Mankytoes)
    I don't know if you've ever done any academic research, but that's too small a sample to draw conclusions from, could easily be coincidence. I mean both your groups are extremes, surely most girls are in between?
    I have but im not doing an academic study here. just a casual ear to the wind.

    im also aware many people on here may not have had more than 3 relationships. so i was lowering the number to allow more people to join in the discussion.

    i guess people who have noticed girls are in between would be classed as not having noticed this?
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Sounds like stereotyping mysogenistic nonsense to me.
    u could make the question go both ways in terms of gender.
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    (Original post by Mick.w)
    Please people with varied relationship experience only.

    I've noticed all the girls I've dated who were very loyal were also monumental pains in my arse. very naggy, very petty, very hostile, very difficult.

    However I've noticed the girls I've dated who were very pleasant to be around, very easy going, very cool to chill with, were also promiscuous and had been unfaithful to pretty much all their partners.


    has anyone else noticed this pattern?

    Not saying I agree with said stereotype but I can see where you're coming from and will try to elaborate.

    If a girl is unfaithful to you she's most likely not interested in you or you are no longer not enough for her. There's no reason for her to commit/bother otherwise so she probably doesn't care what you're doing and this is why she appears all " chill and easy going

    A longer relationship with some one more loyal/faithful is bound to feel annoying at times but no one said relationships are always meant to be happy lol
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    i see your point, but i disagree with the others: i think the kind of girl thats easy to be around: funny, mature, beautiful and flirty is more likely to have lots of guys hanging round her.
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    That's because loyal girls care. Promiscuous ones don't give a **** because if you dump them they'll just move onto the next one.
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    Some the girls I've known that have been more paranoid/naggy/clingy have been the ones that are cheating...as they're **** scared the guy is doing the same thing.
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    (Original post by Nomes89)
    Some the girls I've known that have been more paranoid/naggy/clingy have been the ones that are cheating...as they're **** scared the guy is doing the same thing.
    true but ive found that to be less common
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    No I've noticed the opposite. The cheaters are usually *****es in the first place and have no respect for anyone but themselves.
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    I'm loyal and pleasant
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    (Original post by ChickenMadness)
    No I've noticed the opposite. The cheaters are usually *****es in the first place and have no respect for anyone but themselves.
    well at least u know to get the hell out of there next time lol
 
 
 
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