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    Last night I made a close friend (girl) of mine upset and I don't know what to do..

    It was over something small to be honest.. I just asked her to change my name on something for me and she said no. Then I said:
    "if you don't change it i won't talk to u"
    Then she said "ok don't talk"
    Then I replied:
    "what is ur problem? i do everything for u and u can't even do a small thing for me..wow"

    Then she said that she doesn't like the way I said that.. 'do this otherwise i won't talk..'

    Then I just said I'm sorry but please change my name.

    Then she said ok and she changed it.

    Then she went quiet.

    I asked her are u angry?

    And she replied:

    "i dont understand why u said u do everything for me.. u don't need to say that.. when u help someone then u just keep inside u don't say it"

    I said I'm sorry again and i didnt mean to upset her.

    Then she said "ok dont worry" and "will talk later"

    But I know she is upset/angry at me.

    Anyway, today I messaged her as normal. I asked if she is ok, etc, but I didn't bring up anything from the previous night. But the way she was talking to me to I can feel like she doesn't want to talk to me. So I don't know how to proceed. Will she come round in a few days?

    We are close friends. And up until last night, things were perfect between us. When we have an argument it really throws me off real bad and I just think about it all day. I am such a good friend to her and I pretty do everything she asks me, more than any other person would ever do.

    We spoke just a little during the day and she hasn't messaged me again after that. We are always talking and now things just seem really bad to me.

    What should I do? Please advise..

    *UPDATE* - She hid her last seen on whatsapp. I'm surprised at this. And I am 90% sure she did it to annoy me or something.

    go no contact, stop being the one to message first.

    Just wait for her
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