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Problem with girls as always

My gf recently broke up with me and I still really like her. It doesnt help that we work with each other either. I am seeing 2 girls atm to try and take my mind off of her. One is dirty and its that kind of relationship, the other is a bit crazy, we have seen each other like 6 times and she is saying how much she cares for me. I have told her that I am moving to uni and there is no chance of a relationship and that we should just have fun while we can. Yesterday however her mum was inviting me round for tea and telling me how much the girl liked me and now im like argh. I can pull quite easily, not wanting to boast or anything, (last sat pulled mates older sis haha but thats another story) but i dont know what to do as i am very much in love with my ex still and i am trying to get things back to normal in terms of us being mates as we were well good friends before, but she is being really weird and purposefully ignoring me at work even if we are on same shift. help......advice....?
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My gf recently broke up with me and I still really like her. It doesnt help that we work with each other either. I am seeing 2 girls atm to try and take my mind off of her. One is dirty and its that kind of relationship, the other is a bit crazy, we have seen each other like 6 times and she is saying how much she cares for me. I have told her that I am moving to uni and there is no chance of a relationship and that we should just have fun while we can. Yesterday however her mum was inviting me round for tea and telling me how much the girl liked me and now im like argh. I can pull quite easily, not wanting to boast or anything, (last sat pulled mates older sis haha but thats another story) but i dont know what to do as i am very much in love with my ex still and i am trying to get things back to normal in terms of us being mates as we were well good friends before, but she is being really weird and purposefully ignoring me at work even if we are on same shift. help......advice....?

Oh, well done, mate.

Now, if you want some serious advice, how about you stop going out and pulling random girls. Maybe your ex will take you an ickle bit seriously if you get out of your own arse.
Reply 2
She doesnt know these girls, they know each other, but not of each other. Meh im only doing that cos otherwise i think about my ex, she has said there is no chance but i dunno what i can do otherwise
Reply 3
How about not seeing any of them, getting your head straight and deciding what to do. Just because you're hurt due to the end of a relationship doesn't give you the right to hurt other people. There are plently of ways to forget about your ex that don't involve playing with peoples emotions.
Reply 4
Yeah i suppose I could do that, or I could just see one of them. hmmm i dunno, uni will be a lot more fun anyways
Reply 5
From what you posted you don't seem like you're in thr right frame of mind to see any of them until you get over your ex.
Reply 6
i guess but it is nothing serious plus I told her straight there is no chance of a relationship. I am really good when I have a gf as in I have NEVER cheated on a girl cos i have been in my last 3 big relationships and so i no what it feels like but when im single i no ican be a complete *******.