The Student Room Group

confusing man situation.

So heres the deal... nothing can ever happen between me and the guy that i really like, (or so he said, but he seems to have been wavering a bit recently). Im not sure If I have finished trying to persuade him and he is on holiday at the mo, when he gets back I think I might try once more.
But... tonight I am going out, pretty sure that a guy that I had an ongoing thing with up until stuff happened with the current guy (the one thats on holiday) is gunna be there. Whenever I see him he always tries it on with me, but recently I haven't been responding to it. But tonight I'm feeling quite depressed and I think a bit of male attention will help me feel much better, if I got with guy number 2 would it mess up everything with guy number 1? (considering nothing is meant to be happening with guy number 1, and also considering that I still like guy number 1)
Um it would probably mess things up from ever happening. This sounds sort of like a situation i was in recently!
I would say if guy 1 says nothing is going to happen then thats it, i wouldnt try persuading him again, i've realised how stupid i have been a few times trying persuade a guy of something. Anyway if you have to persuade him i would say he isnt worth being with.
If you got with guy 2 then there is likely to be no chance with 1, maybe you should wait for guy 1 to return im guessing that cant be that long. If you really like 1 then you will wait if you believe there is any chance.
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Try for Guy 1. Guy 2 will not appreciate being used this way.
But getting with guy 2 might make guy 1 jealous and he might realise he likes you more than he thinks he does. im not usually one for playing relationship games but in situations like this the result cld go either way...