is this normal

im a 16yr old girl and well im at the stage where i dont know what i want. im thinking of what i want and its definite but the next day, i want something totally different. espeshially in my love life...my feelings for someone change all the time. one day i have my heart set on something, then its different...the next day. its soo confusing. why is this happening?

Reply 1

peaches_and_cream

Blame it on the weather...

or hormones

Reply 2

blondemoment

hormones, YAY. but really, who WANTS to be predictable? :biggrin:

Reply 3

so_this_is_sam

Definitely hormones hun,im 18 and im still having days like this. I just cant decide what i want and its tearing me apart...

Reply 4

ladyportacabin

Yep, I was definitely like that from when I was 13 or so til recently. Still get indecisive a lot of the time. There's just too damn much to do in life!

Reply 5

prettyblueeyes

Totally normal!

Reply 6

Renal

I have never heard someone ask "Is this normal?" about something completely odd ball. I live for the day...

Reply 7

Dez

I murder people for a living.

Is this normal?

Reply 8

username47781

seems totally normal for a 16 year old not to know what they want or rather one day they want something but the next they want something different, i didn't know what i wanted at 21, your feelings will change so much.

Reply 9

Zafda

everyone has those days.
i dunno, questioning things and contemplating is good, as long as it doesn't affect your everyday shizz.
try not to think so much, if you dunno what you wanna do with your life start looking around and researching, cut down your options so you have an aim/ambition.

love life unfortunatly just happens, you're only 16 - you have heaps to live for.