Confused about This Girl..

For the love of God, don't say, "Actually, I really don't like you, my bad."

Just kind of ... stop hanging out with her so much and don't call her any more. It's kind of a harsh thing for you to do, but I can't think of anything else.

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Hmm, have you told her you really like her in a LIKE LIKE way or a way that you could change around to mean that you meant as a good friend?

If you arent going out I think you could just sort of...drift away, ask to see her less and less, but not never, until you can work it down to not often. And she will get the idea.

Ah I dont know!

How old are you?

Reply 3

aww whats a red dot?
sorry off the subject.

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dede

For the love of God, don't say, "Actually, I really don't like you, my bad."

Just kind of ... stop hanging out with her so much and don't call her any more. It's kind of a harsh thing for you to do, but I can't think of anything else.

I liked her when we first met, and it seems that the Honey Moon Period is well and truely over before it really started.

If it was that easy i would, but just ignoring her on the phone, and also, not going out, i would be stuck inside all day and night, and i don't want that. Going out with her is cool, like to the pub, cinema etc.. but when we are alone, either her house or mine, she really annoys me, and i feel trapped. Like, when i say 'ok, do you want to go home now? as i am feeling tired, and need to go to bed..' it seems as if she get's really p'eed off and i feel bad about it.

Reply 5

Well don't use her so she takes you places, that's mean.

Reply 6

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JIMMY THE SAINT.

Hmm, have you told her you really like her in a LIKE LIKE way or a way that you could change around to mean that you meant as a good friend?

If you arent going out I think you could just sort of...drift away, ask to see her less and less, but not never, until you can work it down to not often. And she will get the idea.

Ah I dont know!

How old are you?

i told her, before i discovered she was this bad, that i really wanted to have a relationship now, and now, i really don't think i want to get involved. Feels like im leading her on, but im not.

Just drift apart? Would be hard, as we go out alot, with other mates, and wherever i go, she will most likely be. So would be hard to just shrug her off..

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dede

Well don't use her so she takes you places, that's mean.

Im not using her as such, we get on really well when out, and mixing with other people and having a laugh. It's just alone, either at home or wherever. I can't do anything i want to do, other-wise i feel like i am breaking a rule or something.

Some mates have told me that she is a bunny boiler, and i need to get rid of her, or end up hurt. Maybe they are right?

Reply 8

Stop inviting her over to your house then. If you show less interest, she'll get it eventually, promise.

Reply 9

If you don't mind going out with her to places,
just don't invite her to your house when you know youre going to be alone, or don't go to hers. If she asks you why maybe you'll have to explain.

This is confusing.

Reply 10

He always gets there before me.

Reply 11

Moi?

I'm a she!

Reply 12

carefree_sloth

Anonymous

Going out with her is cool, like to the pub, cinema etc.. but when we are alone, either her house or mine, she really annoys me, and i feel trapped.

Well, bring her out along with your other mates. Hang out more with your other friends more and pay less attention to her, but not totally ignore her (that's rude! :p:

) Then, if you can or when opportunity arises, go home earlier than the rest, that way you won't feel "trapped" when both of you are left alone waiting for transportation to go home.

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#zomg#How embarrassing!

Oh, haha sorry, I just assumed from your picture, even though its obviously not you...I apologise most sincerely!

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dede

Stop inviting her over to your house then. If you show less interest, she'll get it eventually, promise.

Not a bad idea, my head is all over the place, not really had the sense to think like that. And when she comes to mine, ill get a mate to tell her im not here. Or just not answer the door.. :biggrin:

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JIMMY THE SAINT.

If you don't mind going out with her to places,
just don't invite her to your house when you know youre going to be alone, or don't go to hers. If she asks you why maybe you'll have to explain.

This is confusing.

Sometimes going to my house is not planned, she says she is going home, but some how ends up at mine :confused:

And i ain't got the heart to tell her to piss off home. I have some respect, which sucks.

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JIMMY THE SAINT.

#zomg#How embarrassing!

Oh, haha sorry, I just assumed from your picture, even though its obviously not you...I apologise most sincerely!

haha, no worries. It's Duckie, from Pretty in Pink!

Anon, yeah, it'll all sort itself out if you start spending less time with her. Girls are generally pretty good at picking up signals.

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carefree_sloth

Well, bring her out along with your other mates. Hang out more with your other friends more and pay less attention to her, but not totally ignore her (that's rude! :p:

) Then, if you can or when opportunity arises, go home earlier than the rest, that way you won't feel "trapped" when both of you are left alone waiting for transportation to go home.

Could do, but they will rip the **** out of her, and that will make me feel bad, but if it would get rid of her, then so be it. Not sure she would even want to be friends after meeting them and getting abused that bad by them.

I am her transport home, i take her home most of the time if she is out late or drunk or misses her train.

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