not a good feeling!

hmm.
don't put so much effort into the emails then?
i think your feelings are normal if you expect him to write an essay back, he may just be someone who prefers talking on the phone or in person.

Reply 2

Shéamais

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Anonymous

okay my bf is mostly abroad and so we keep in contact with chat n mail, the thing is sometimes i really feel that i make most of the effort because i write a mail full of gess wots and love yas, but i always get a mail about 3/4 lines long! i understand that he has work and etc but even on the weekend, i mean the only time i do get a long one is when he says sorry for something, i dont know sometimes i feel that the relationship has lost its spark but then when i do recieve the mail my heart starts to pump really really quick!! i dont know is this s normal feeling to have! :confused:

What job does he do?

Reply 3

Grey

And where is he working, also what kind of cologne does he war?

Oh and what is his favourite food?

What do we careabout your love life, this isn't like some "Health & Relationships" forum where you can post problems about your relationship, I'm sure there are plenty of Agony Aunts on the net; this is THE STUDENT ROOM.

:tsr2:

Reply 4

OP

Zafda

hmm.
don't put so much effort into the emails then?
i think your feelings are normal if you expect him to write an essay back, he may just be someone who prefers talking on the phone or in person.

i dont expect an essay but maybe a something that i can spend at least 20 seconds reading, i make my mail full of questions do when i do ger a reply back its long, but still, i dono maybe its me being over the top

Reply 5

ah don't worry about it.
how long have you been together for?

Reply 6

OP

almost 7 months

Reply 7

hmm, i dunno.. try not to worry about it.
do you see him often?
because if its THAT bad maybe the relationship isnt worth it?

Reply 8

pbrown

Grey

And where is he working, also what kind of cologne does he war?

Oh and what is his favourite food?

What do we careabout your love life, this isn't like some "Health & Relationships" forum where you can post problems about your relationship, I'm sure there are plenty of Agony Aunts on the net; this is THE STUDENT ROOM.

:tsr2:

This is a Relationship Problem, is it not?

Reply 9

OP

thanks for replying by the way!!
well i last saw him in april, i know long time its just that when i do get a mail i'm all happy and feel good, last time when the topic of break up came between us nether of us could take it, i know he does like me, well more than likes me its just that i'm doind all the effort that both of us can stay together and wont have a break up

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

I think your getting a bit upset over nothing really.

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Ron Stoppable

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Anonymous

okay my bf is mostly abroad and so we keep in contact with chat n mail, the thing is sometimes i really feel that i make most of the effort because i write a mail full of gess wots and love yas, but i always get a mail about 3/4 lines long! i understand that he has work and etc but even on the weekend, i mean the only time i do get a long one is when he says sorry for something, i dont know sometimes i feel that the relationship has lost its spark but then when i do recieve the mail my heart starts to pump really really quick!! i dont know is this s normal feeling to have! :confused:

Before I decide whether I want to read them or not, emails full of "gess wot"s and "love ya"s would have to beat my spam filter. :rolleyes:

Reply 12

did you mean thanks for me replying? if so, no problem, i appreciate replies too ;D

aah i don't think you should feel like you're keeping the relationship up, maybe you should do what hes doing, be pretty brief in your emails and stuff because it may get him to put in more effort.

or at least tell him that you appreciate him telling you more.? then you'll get to see whether he takes what you say seriously or not.

i dunno what questions you ask him but some people, when they ask heaps of stuff it can be annoying, as if they're too keen.. mind you some people like it, i dunno..

do you often talk on the phone? try to get him to call you if he doesn't email back an essay..

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