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I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?
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The person you met was probably a competitive gamer then, as opposed to a more relaxed gamer. Competitive gamers always come up with these terminologies, like triple, choke etcetera. You can't expect to always understand the terminologies used, since most of them are specific to a particular game (The two I mentioned are specific to COD and FPS games alike)
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I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
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I get what you mean, I'm a 'gamer' not by guys standards but a gamer nonetheless,
I play to enjoy myself, I don't know about terminology nor do I care, if I wanted to care I'd ask my brother,
I play games like the last of us, uncharted, god of war, batman arkum asylum, KOTOR and so no one can tell me I attention seek cause I never really tell people unless they ask me,
Boys.
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I play to enjoy myself, I don't know about terminology nor do I care, if I wanted to care I'd ask my brother,
I play games like the last of us, uncharted, god of war, batman arkum asylum, KOTOR and so no one can tell me I attention seek cause I never really tell people unless they ask me,
Boys.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?
I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?
You have excellent gamer credentials

Also people who play games are not all the same. Just like everyone who reads a certain genre of books are not the same. You don't have to get on with every single person who plays video games.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?
I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?

Maybe they just need to diversify there interests a little bit? I'd just say that you play every so often. Dismissing someone for not gaming enough a little sad.
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He's obviously immature, yeah sure poke fun "Oh you're that type of gamer eh?!" but yeah. Don't talk to or date elitists, no matter the subject. I went out with a girl who was very horrible against my music taste "Oh they're not a real rock band" etc. It's not just guys or girls who do this, nor is it confined to just gaming, it's everyone.
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Switch from playing Team Fortress to Counterstrike then we'll talk
Maybe they just need to diversify there interests a little bit? I'd just say that you play every so often. Dismissing someone for not gaming enough a little sad.
Switch from playing Team Fortress to Counterstrike then we'll talk

Maybe they just need to diversify there interests a little bit? I'd just say that you play every so often. Dismissing someone for not gaming enough a little sad.

Yeah, I'll just say that next time. Though in my defense, I did say that I gamed 'a bit'.
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There is a difference between someone who plays games for fun and a full out nerd , this guy was one of the latter.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?
I'm a girl and I have quite a few interests. I read, mainly, but I also game, watch anime and read comics. Naturally, I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody who has similar interests to me, but the problem is that I don't game enough/watch enough anime/read enough comics to really call any of them a hobby, at least by guys' standards. For example, I was talking to a guy that I just met a few days ago and I mentioned that I gamed a bit, after he asked. He started rattling on about all this gaming terminology that I had no idea of and then when he finally realised that I was lost, he accused me of being one of those girls who fakes being into stuff for attention from guys! I do game, I mainly play Halo, Team Fortress and Dota, yet he was quick to dimiss me. The same happens with anime, comics etc.
Why is this always happening, and how can I prevent it?
There are a lot of guys like this that have these interests which I will explain in a minute. However this is a unique case! Don't worry, not all guys are like that. I have the same interests as you btw, so I'm talking from experience

Guys with these interest tend to be geeky ofc




Don't let them stop you gaming and watching anime and all the other good stuff


PM me if you want, I love a good chat about games and anime

Hope this helped though

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I used to play too much Dota to be socially acceptable
lol. I got really into it because of my ex, it was really great for our relationship that we both played because we understood stuff which could have been difficult in a gamer/non-gamer relationship e.g. can't just pause/quit the game to reply to texts because we have 4 other people relying on us. Plus when it came to TI3/4 we'd watch games together and discuss it.
As mentioned earlier just start describing yourself as a "casual gamer" say that you do like to play from time to time but you have a lot of other interests too

As mentioned earlier just start describing yourself as a "casual gamer" say that you do like to play from time to time but you have a lot of other interests too
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Too many DOTA players in here. Wer's ma leeg crew at?
And OP just say you're a casual gamer.
And OP just say you're a casual gamer.
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Tell them 'guess whose not getting laid now'
Never had that problem. I'm a casual gamer too.
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Never had that problem. I'm a casual gamer too.
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Dota 2 master race crew checking in.
Actually got a few irl mates into it too - pretty nice playing a few games with them in the evening, especially as we're living all round the country currently. It's an easy way to catch up just chilling on skype and playing.
@OP he was probably a goon. Some gamers are goons, some are relatively normal.
Actually got a few irl mates into it too - pretty nice playing a few games with them in the evening, especially as we're living all round the country currently. It's an easy way to catch up just chilling on skype and playing.
@OP he was probably a goon. Some gamers are goons, some are relatively normal.
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Actually got a few irl mates into it too - pretty nice playing a few games with them in the evening, especially as we're living all round the country currently. It's an easy way to catch up just chilling on skype and playing.
Actually got a few irl mates into it too - pretty nice playing a few games with them in the evening, especially as we're living all round the country currently. It's an easy way to catch up just chilling on skype and playing.
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I used to play too much Dota to be socially acceptable
lol. I got really into it because of my ex, it was really great for our relationship that we both played because we understood stuff which could have been difficult in a gamer/non-gamer relationship e.g. can't just pause/quit the game to reply to texts because we have 4 other people relying on us. Plus when it came to TI3/4 we'd watch games together and discuss it.
As mentioned earlier just start describing yourself as a "casual gamer" say that you do like to play from time to time but you have a lot of other interests too
I used to play too much Dota to be socially acceptable

As mentioned earlier just start describing yourself as a "casual gamer" say that you do like to play from time to time but you have a lot of other interests too
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Yeah, Dota 2 is really sucking me in. I spent 5 hours on it today thinking it was about an hour. Time flies whilst playing, I guess. The no pause thing is annoying though because my mum is one of those people who thinks up a chore for me to do like every 5 minutes. So it's either ignore my mum or face the wrath of the people I'm playing with
Yeah, Dota 2 is really sucking me in. I spent 5 hours on it today thinking it was about an hour. Time flies whilst playing, I guess. The no pause thing is annoying though because my mum is one of those people who thinks up a chore for me to do like every 5 minutes. So it's either ignore my mum or face the wrath of the people I'm playing with
Parents don't get it and never will! I had my dad turn the computer off at the wall once lol! Got an abandon and everything

PM me if you want and we'll play together some time if you fancy it, I literally know like 1 other girl who plays haha
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I get what you mean, I'm a 'gamer' not by guys standards but a gamer nonetheless,
I play to enjoy myself, I don't know about terminology nor do I care, if I wanted to care I'd ask my brother,
I play games like the last of us, uncharted, god of war, batman arkum asylum, KOTOR and so no one can tell me I attention seek cause I never really tell people unless they ask me,
Boys.
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I get what you mean, I'm a 'gamer' not by guys standards but a gamer nonetheless,
I play to enjoy myself, I don't know about terminology nor do I care, if I wanted to care I'd ask my brother,
I play games like the last of us, uncharted, god of war, batman arkum asylum, KOTOR and so no one can tell me I attention seek cause I never really tell people unless they ask me,
Boys.
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Played the 2nd one too?

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