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WHAT TO DO? I have a crush on one of my new female friends at halls

I met a girl at halls. I have a feeling she has a long distance bf but she is very flirty in general. She seems to talk to me a lot and is very touchy, especially when she is wearing tight fitting tops which leave little to the imagination and shorts in the summer which show off her legs.

She's this hot blonde senorita from the continent. She was sucking her finger in the dining room the other day and all I can think of is her sucking me... is this normal?

What do I do? I mean she is my friend.. although we're not close close. And second, is she's in my halls. Which is small, it could get awkward if something goes wrong in a relationship. Plus I'm not sure I want to ask her out!

I keep thinking about her and the other day found a pornstar who looks similar to her and de-stressed by watching that.

Help! Do guys get crushes or visualise girls they know in this way?

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your story is bull**** because its summer so everyone will be living with their parents whilst uni isn't on.
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Original post by farrow000
your story is bull**** because its summer so everyone will be living with their parents whilst uni isn't on.


Dude, I'm talking about at the end of the semester. Just posted it today.

Any advice?
Original post by Anonymous
I met a girl at halls. I have a feeling she has a long distance bf but she is very flirty in general. She seems to talk to me a lot and is very touchy, especially when she is wearing tight fitting tops which leave little to the imagination and shorts in the summer which show off her legs.

She's this hot blonde senorita from the continent. She was sucking her finger in the dining room the other day and all I can think of is her sucking me... is this normal?

What do I do? I mean she is my friend.. although we're not close close. And second, is she's in my halls. Which is small, it could get awkward if something goes wrong in a relationship. Plus I'm not sure I want to ask her out!

I keep thinking about her and the other day found a pornstar who looks similar to her and de-stressed by watching that.

Help! Do guys get crushes or visualise girls they know in this way?


You have 3 options:

1. Man up and hook up.

2. Get over it and move on with your life.

3. ignore it, or pretend to be over it and pine impotently for her forever either because you can't take no for an answer or you let your fear stop you from getting any.
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As in I keep having naughty thoughts involving her!
Reply 5
Original post by Studentus-anonymous
You have 3 options:

1. Man up and hook up.

2. Get over it and move on with your life.

3. ignore it, or pretend to be over it and pine impotently for her forever either because you can't take no for an answer or you let your fear stop you from getting any.



So ask for her to suck me?
Reply 6
is it possible to get together with her just as a one off?
Original post by Anonymous
So ask for her to suck me?


You don't ask for sex. YOU EARN IT!!!
Reply 8
Original post by Wilsoncw1997
You don't ask for sex. YOU EARN IT!!!


Okay so what do I do here then?

She looked at me and sucked her finger.

She has also played footsie with me under the table and put her foot on my chair and felt around my crotch with it at a dinner party once.

And how do you have a one off fling? I envisage her sexually not as a gf.
Original post by Anonymous
Okay so what do I do here then?

She looked at me and sucked her finger.

She has also played footsie with me under the table and put her foot on my chair and felt around my crotch with it at a dinner party once.

And how do you have a one off fling? I envisage her sexually not as a gf.


Ask her indirectly. Don't go up to her and say: "yo, wanna have sex".
Say: "I have some problems I need to resolve, can you come over?"
Reply 10
Ask her to hang out with you the clichéd way: ask her to go cinemas, bowling or even a gig/concert.
Original post by kkboyk
Ask her to hang out with you the clichéd way: ask her to go cinemas, bowling or even a gig/concert.


Wouldn't that be asking her out though? I don't really envision having a relationship with her. I don't find her personality that attractive.
Reply 12
Original post by Anonymous
Wouldn't that be asking her out though? I don't really envision having a relationship with her. I don't find her personality that attractive.


It could go both ways really
Don't even try getting with or dating a girl in your halls ... Things get very awkward very fast when this break down ... I should know that.
Original post by Anonymous
So ask for her to suck me?


Yes, dependent on how confident you are and how you go about it.
Original post by Studentus-anonymous
Yes, dependent on how confident you are and how you go about it.


Okay so how then?
Original post by Wilsoncw1997
Ask her indirectly. Don't go up to her and say: "yo, wanna have sex".
Say: "I have some problems I need to resolve, can you come over?"


Haha anything else?

She started these urges!!
Original post by Anonymous
I met a girl at halls. I have a feeling she has a long distance bf but she is very flirty in general. She seems to talk to me a lot and is very touchy, especially when she is wearing tight fitting tops which leave little to the imagination and shorts in the summer which show off her legs.

She's this hot blonde senorita from the continent. She was sucking her finger in the dining room the other day and all I can think of is her sucking me... is this normal?

What do I do? I mean she is my friend.. although we're not close close. And second, is she's in my halls. Which is small, it could get awkward if something goes wrong in a relationship. Plus I'm not sure I want to ask her out!

I keep thinking about her and the other day found a pornstar who looks similar to her and de-stressed by watching that.

Help! Do guys get crushes or visualise girls they know in this way?


Wait I'm sure I've heard this story before? :s-smilie:
Original post by jay2013
Wait I'm sure I've heard this story before? :s-smilie:


Maybe it's the same girl then! Thing is now she's entered my fantasies /fap moments..

What to do?!
Original post by Anonymous
Maybe it's the same girl then! Thing is now she's entered my fantasies /fap moments..

What to do?!


Is she Spanish by any chance?

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