two boys...

ahh, i dont know what to do, it might sound stupid but theres this guy i like but he lives far away but im going to uni near him soon, ive been texting him for months and i was planning on seeing how it goes, but the other day i met another guy i used to know and im not too sure about him but he's very very keen, ive tried not texting him but he'll ask if i got his last message and stuff, what should i do? go for a drink with this guy or not? it doesn't class as cheating does it?

Reply 1

username47781

well if your single then now its not cheating, might be worth going for a drink with this guy but go slowly and get to know him and see where it goes.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

yeh i guess, i know this sounds strange but ive pulled other guys but because i have feelings for this new guy it feels like im cheating, i know that if it was the other way round it wouldn't bother me him pulling random girls but if he was texting and going on dates with a girl i'd be annoyed. does that make sense?

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

I'm sort of in the same position. Going to see a girl I have feelings for again in a month. Before leaving uni I found out she felt the same way, but the last week we were kinda weird and distant only really becoming close after several drinks.

I'm not sure how I'd feel if she was with a ton of guys over the summer, but the one time I pulled some girl I felt pretty bad afterwards.