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feeling guilty...
il try and keep this short.
there is this boy in my group that i've always slightly liked, but whenever hes liked me too its been really bad timing so nothings ever happened.
He went out with my best friend for 3 months a couple of years ago but they never really saw each other so it didnt work out. However its still a bit awkward between them and she was telling me that if she had the chance she'd get back with him.
Also hes recently been out with another one of my friends (not such a good friend though). They went out for about 7 months and have just recently spilt up.
I've always wanted to get with him but havnt because i didnt want to hurt my freinds that have been out with him. But last night I was very drunk and all my other friends told me to just go for it so i did. We didnt do a lot but now its the next morning and I feel really guilty about it. Should i? Also how should i go about telling my friend?
Ok sorry i tried to keep it short! Any advice or thoughts would be good. thanks.
there is this boy in my group that i've always slightly liked, but whenever hes liked me too its been really bad timing so nothings ever happened.
He went out with my best friend for 3 months a couple of years ago but they never really saw each other so it didnt work out. However its still a bit awkward between them and she was telling me that if she had the chance she'd get back with him.
Also hes recently been out with another one of my friends (not such a good friend though). They went out for about 7 months and have just recently spilt up.
I've always wanted to get with him but havnt because i didnt want to hurt my freinds that have been out with him. But last night I was very drunk and all my other friends told me to just go for it so i did. We didnt do a lot but now its the next morning and I feel really guilty about it. Should i? Also how should i go about telling my friend?
Ok sorry i tried to keep it short! Any advice or thoughts would be good. thanks.
Why not ask advice of your "other friends"? You seem all too happy to follow their command after all...
hmm.
you seem very generous, i was like that. you like a guy but you never go for the kill, but give him to any of your friends that've liked him.
i don't see why you have to explain anything to any of your friends, you've 'slightly' liked him for ages, longer than them probably.. so yeah, sometimes you don't need to give in to your 'friends' that much.. i thought i had to but feck it, i was far too generous for my own good.
i don't see why you're guilty, hes single & so are you.. end of.
you seem very generous, i was like that. you like a guy but you never go for the kill, but give him to any of your friends that've liked him.
i don't see why you have to explain anything to any of your friends, you've 'slightly' liked him for ages, longer than them probably.. so yeah, sometimes you don't need to give in to your 'friends' that much.. i thought i had to but feck it, i was far too generous for my own good.
i don't see why you're guilty, hes single & so are you.. end of.
if you're both single you feel strongly about each other , then there is nothing stopping you. 
thanks guys x
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