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Can't stop thinking about him

when i was at school i started to really like this guy in my classes and after a while i thought he liked me too but was never sure. i never told my friends about it but they seemed to know and kept dropping hints asking me if i liked him. after i left school i saw him less but still see him sometimes and i feel the same way and think he does. when i see his friends they look at me as if they know he likes me but don't say anything.

i saw him a while ago and couldn't beleive how much i still do like him but now i don't know if he's got a gf or what.

i can't seem to stop thinking about him and some days its really bad and i can't think of anything else.

i know now i've got no chance with this guy but can't block him out of my mind. i'm starting my 2nd year of college in sept and need to concentrate and get good A level grades but the way i feel now i don't think i'm going to get into uni at all.

any advice on how to deal with this would be great

thanks :smile:

Reply 1

You have to tell him. If he likes you also then you are onto a winner, and if he doesn't feel the same way you get closure and can move on :smile: Good luck :smile:

Reply 2

:ditto: Close this thread, because that answer is the option to choose

Reply 3

haha, aw.

its a horrible feeling isnt it? don't you stay in touch with him.. next time you see him get his email address/number or something and stay in touch, or meet up and talk about whether he has his eye on someone or something..

many times i've liked someone who i've assumed may like me back but they never do, it always helps to ask them if they like anyone, dig it out of them and if they say they do and mention someone else, then seriously sod it. you';ll be holding onto someone who probably couldn't give a toss about you.

mind you some guys love to play hard to get.