my bf's movin away

my bf is moving away in october, he's going to uni and i'm not! i'm 2 years younger and so am just starting six form. i really love him, he's sweet, funny, cheers me up when i'm upset, he's my best friend and i don't know how i'll be able to cope without him.

He's not moving far, hour and a half by car if i can get someone to take me. The longest i've bin away from him is two weeks when i went on hols but i could only last 4 days not talking to him, sad eh?

We've bin going out nearly 9 months and have only just having sex which is great but i'm just worried that when he leaves he'll find someone else, someone his own age on his course or down the pub etc, i don't want to be a burden to him but because of how i feel about him i don't want to be apart from him for longer than i have to, which sounds a bit desperate! I want him to be happy of course i do, but i can't stand the thought of us drifting apart because of distance or because we don't have time to talk through lack of time, please help i don't want to lose him!

Reply 1

History_is...

All you can do is try and see how it goes. It wont be easy but if you both want it to work it can, just give it a chance and try to trust him - suspicion will kill any relationship in no time.

Reply 2

Talya

A train might be quicker than car, so you might be closer than you think.

I think here you have to give him space, because trying to cling on to him will only make it worse.

Reply 3

lilac!!

okai i really feel for you!! i mean i'm scared about that too, but u have got to have trust on him, i mean i'm sure hes not a ass that hes going to gorget your 9 month relationship in just 2 minutes when he meet someone else, also you het a webcam so you can see him, chat to him, and you r gona call and make certain dates, its kinda cute lol to were n when you guys are going to meet, i mean hes as sad as you are about leaving, just trust him :smile:

Reply 4

foxiroxi

If it's ment to be it will work out.

I'm moving over 3 hours train and over 4 hours car ride away from my boyfriend. Although it may be hard we are both determind to make it work. His two years older then me and has a full time job in a managers role so has little time but we will find time for him to come and visit and me to visit him. It should work :smile: