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first bf, what am i ment to do??

okay hes going to come over my place for about 1 week being a family friend and all, he mailed saying how he feels and bla bla bla!
i saw him 2wice after than, this was 3 months ago but we could hardly talk as it was just a hi and by visite with his parents, we r both 15, i dont know how to react, i'll say hi when they come in but what after that, i mean waht if we r alone then what happins because im a shy person i dont want to end up boraing him :redface:

help!!

Reply 1

username47781

20

grrr text talk, anyway listen your 15, your so young, but if he tries to do anything your not comfortable with, tell him. I'm not sure how this will work otherwise because your feelings will change so much.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

Stop worrying for a start - the more you worry the more awkward and unnatural it will seem.

Secondly, it's highly unlikely he expects anything from you other than for you to be yourself - relax and have a laugh - you'll get to know each other better and then you'll feel more relaxed.

If anything is meant to happen then it'll happen naturally - don't try to act how you think you're supposed to - if he finds you boring (which he won't), then it's his problem and you're better off without him...Just be confident - he'll love it!!!!

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awww how cute

Carl1982

grrr text talk, anyway listen your 15, your so young, but if he tries to do anything your not comfortable with, tell him. I'm not sure how this will work otherwise because your feelings will change so much.

About as annoying as people not knowing the difference between "your" and "you're"

Reply 5

username47781

20

Sazarina88

About as annoying as people not knowing the difference between "your" and "you're"

oh for god's sake we're not all perfect least i don't text talk

Reply 6

Sazarina88

11

Carl1982

oh for god's sake we're not all perfect least i don't text talk

Indeed.

Reply 7

pink_lucie

14

are you sure you're together? :confused:

Reply 8

Dionysus

15

Trust me, it's a lot harder being the bloke :P Just be confident and he'll respond.

Reply 9

username47781

20

well it don't seem much of a relationship, if they barely see each other, i doubt either of them are ready to be honest.

Reply 10

Redefined

13

Anonymous

he mailed saying how he feels and bla bla bla!

Well to me, it sounds like your quite in love :rolleyes:

Reply 11

Indus1986

4

Anonymous

okay hes going to come over my place for about 1 week being a family friend and all, he mailed saying how he feels and bla bla bla!
i saw him 2wice after than, this was 3 months ago but we could hardly talk as it was just a hi and by visite with his parents, we r both 15, i dont know how to react, i'll say hi when they come in but what after that, i mean waht if we r alone then what happins because im a shy person i dont want to end up boraing him :redface:

help!!

Show him your barbie collection and he will show you his pokemon collection then you can put them together and play with them until one of you gets bored (most likely be him first) you probably won't have much fun the first time but keep at it.

Reply 12

emsy88

10

Ok....breath op. Relax and just take it slowly, from what you said you dont know each other very well and at 15 you are young (not meaning to patronise) so it is bound to seem like a big deal. Just think of him as anyone else your age, talk like you would to a friend and build on that. Concentrate in being comfortable in each others company.

Sorry thats all I got :p:

Reply 13

Amlea

1

Yeah think of him as a friend and don't be scared of him. Its only a boy!

Roooaaaarrr!!

Carl1982

oh for god's sake we're not all perfect least i don't text talk

Didn't they teach you capital letters either?

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

well its not so much about what he expects but its that i wont know how to start a convo with him, i mean hes gona be likes so anything new, and im going to sau nothing, wow thats going to be a hell interesting convo! :frown:

lol
sorry about the text speek :redface:

Reply 17

Zinck

1

Do what girls are best at, chatting! Chat to him, talk about interests etc. If all isnt going too well, go and watch a dvd, you dont have to chat so much during that :smile:

Be confident, its hard i know, but just be it, it will help you loads.

first bf, what am i ment to do??

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