Losing Interest....

How do you know if a girl has lost interest in you? For example, l I know a girl from work who says she likes me; but has been acting very strange lately. Recently, she has been flirting less, giving me less attention etc. Whereas before, she was giving me loads of attention and was flirting a lot.

I want to tell her that I really like her in that way too, but I just had to be 'sure' that she wasn't playing a silly mind game with me; and that she truely does like me. However, I am rather sceptical right now. :confused:

Reply 1

generalebriety

Maybe she's waiting for you to flirt back. Girls won't just keep waving themselves at you forever, they'll move on if they think you're not interested.

Reply 2

JamieInPompey

It may be that she is waiting for you to flirt back, however she may have found another guy she likes and is just stopping it with you. To be fair though if you work with her dont go there. I work with my ex gf and it is so hard/depressing cos im still really into her. So unless you are plannning to leave there soon then dont even think about it!

Reply 3

Ulala

No wonder that she 'lost her interest' if you did not make a step forward, shej ust got sick of waiting... that's my opinion. Flirt leads to something, it's not the purpose just itself..

Reply 4

User69701

Girls tend to flirt more than guys and it tends to mean a lot less to them. If you are sure that she likes you ask her out on a date. Flirting and stuff will die down as a relationship progresses.