To be or not to be.....

that is the question in this case. There is this guy with whom I used to go to college. Over the past few months we got in touch via an online friends site and have been emaling each other like crazy. He was really quiet in college and we had classes together but never really spoke that much though he is a nice guy. Thing is very recently we have been flirting like CRAZY and have realised that we have so much in common. Only problem is that we speak online and email and havent got to speak to each other on the phone or in person. I would really like to know he feels as I think that i have feelings for him. How will I know if this "thing" could go any further than just an online buddy thing? I don't want to seem desperate.....

Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks

Well if you used to go to college together then doesn't that mean you live close to each other? If so then why not arrange to meet up with him

Well, speak on the 'phone then. Jesus wept.

There's a thought! Only thing is that so do all of his and my friends and I don't know if it would be awkward in those circumstances.

arrange to meet up with him alone (wink wink). 'hey, i really enjoy chatting with you and wondered if youd like to chat over a coffee sometime blah blah blah'

arrange to meet up with him alone (wink wink). 'hey, i really enjoy chatting with you and wondered if youd like to chat over a coffee sometime blah blah blah'

Aha! I'm so nervous though....I've got butterflies talking about it now...LOL I feel so silly . Will do that

Aww Well good luck, and let us know how it goes!

arrange to meet up with him alone (wink wink). 'hey, i really enjoy chatting with you and wondered if youd like to chat over a coffee sometime blah blah blah'