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Oh, I think there is such a thing! I flirt terribly with people all the time, but it doesn't mean I'm going to do anything- it's just harmless fun!
Reply 2
Some say harmless fun, others say its being a cocktease. Thats the difference between men and women.
Reply 3
Flirting means a lot more to men...
Reply 4
see friends episode
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JustJam2006
Just wondered what people thought about this actually......teensy part of me thinks there isn't such a thing...:rolleyes:


I don't think so - either you are friends with someone, or you take it to the next level. Anything else is being a prick/flange tease...

of course harmless flirting exists :rolleyes:

as long as neither party thinks its going to go further then whats the problem?
Reply 7
Fluffy
I don't think so - either you are friends with someone, or you take it to the next level. Anything else is being a prick/flange tease...


Yeah i agree - fair enough when someone says you are good looking and you are like aww thanks and that.. But never would I say damn you are fine jump into bed with me! Come on, if you are going out with someone whys the need to flirt with anyone else?! You either want someone else or you dont, and if you just like the fun then you shouldnt be in a relationship!
Reply 8
Well I think that maybe in your mind it may be 'harmless' but in the mind of the other party perhaps not. Is this where mixed signals come from?
Reply 9
Thats your mixed signals alright. Many of my male friend complain that girls are teases whilst they complain to me that they "... didn't do anything!"

TRy to think of the other party when you are flirting with no intention of taking it further - it aint right.
amywalters
Yeah i agree - fair enough when someone says you are good looking and you are like aww thanks and that.. But never would I say damn you are fine jump into bed with me! Come on, if you are going out with someone whys the need to flirt with anyone else?! You either want someone else or you dont, and if you just like the fun then you shouldnt be in a relationship!


yes people in relationships should never have fun!! seriously guys there isnt enough flirting in this world, you should all just losen up.
Reply 11
JayB124
Thats your mixed signals alright. Many of my male friend complain that girls are teases whilst they complain to me that they "... didn't do anything!"

TRy to think of the other party when you are flirting with no intention of taking it further - it aint right.


My point exactly :smile:
JustJam2006
My point exactly :smile:


most flirting doesnt go anywhere and sensible people realise this. i usually wouldnt flirt with someone i knew wanted to get into my pants but i flirt with mates all the time. its fun and it makes people feel good.
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high priestess fnord
yes people in relationships should never have fun!! seriously guys there isnt enough flirting in this world, you should all just losen up.


I think flirting's good but as Jay said mixed signals are a bit of a problem. The person flirting with you might think it harmless but you may take it as a come on..... Depends on what people would classify as flirting and whether there is a line....
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high priestess fnord
most flirting doesnt go anywhere and sensible people realise this. i usually wouldnt flirt with someone i knew wanted to get into my pants but i flirt with mates all the time. its fun and it makes people feel good.


True :redface: Maybe its cuz I'm a girl :rolleyes:
JustJam2006
I think flirting's good but as Jay said mixed signals are a bit of a problem. The person flirting with you might think it harmless but you may take it as a come on..... Depends on what people would classify as flirting and whether there is a line....


yes it depends on the people involved. just yesterday one of my bfs mates went running over to him saying guys were acting inappropriately with me when actually they were close mates and it was harmless.
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high priestess fnord
yes it depends on the people involved. just yesterday one of my bfs mates went running over to him saying guys were acting inappropriately with me when actually they were close mates and it was harmless.


Hmm:rolleyes: That could have been a tricky situation
JustJam2006
Hmm:rolleyes: That could have been a tricky situation


would have been if my bf didnt have a sense of humour :smile:
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high priestess fnord
would have been if my bf didnt have a sense of humour :smile:


God Bless the sense of humour......:biggrin:
high priestess fnord
most flirting doesnt go anywhere and sensible people realise this. i usually wouldnt flirt with someone i knew wanted to get into my pants but i flirt with mates all the time. its fun and it makes people feel good.


agree :redface: its great if a nice girl show a interest in a bloke especially if the bloke is a decent sort as well does have to go anywhere unless they both want it to which it is when they like each other enough its great. :redface: