'Harmless' flirting......is there such a thing?

Just wondered what people thought about this actually......teensy part of me thinks there isn't such a thing...

I don't think so - either you are friends with someone, or you take it to the next level. Anything else is being a prick/flange tease...

Yeah i agree - fair enough when someone says you are good looking and you are like aww thanks and that.. But never would I say damn you are fine jump into bed with me! Come on, if you are going out with someone whys the need to flirt with anyone else?! You either want someone else or you dont, and if you just like the fun then you shouldnt be in a relationship!

Thats your mixed signals alright. Many of my male friend complain that girls are teases whilst they complain to me that they "... didn't do anything!"

TRy to think of the other party when you are flirting with no intention of taking it further - it aint right.

My point exactly

yes people in relationships should never have fun!! seriously guys there isnt enough flirting in this world, you should all just losen up.

most flirting doesnt go anywhere and sensible people realise this. i usually wouldnt flirt with someone i knew wanted to get into my pants but i flirt with mates all the time. its fun and it makes people feel good.

I think flirting's good but as Jay said mixed signals are a bit of a problem. The person flirting with you might think it harmless but you may take it as a come on..... Depends on what people would classify as flirting and whether there is a line....

yes it depends on the people involved. just yesterday one of my bfs mates went running over to him saying guys were acting inappropriately with me when actually they were close mates and it was harmless.

Hmm That could have been a tricky situation

would have been if my bf didnt have a sense of humour

most flirting doesnt go anywhere and sensible people realise this. i usually wouldnt flirt with someone i knew wanted to get into my pants but i flirt with mates all the time. its fun and it makes people feel good.