men?????

i dont really no how to explain this but my bf came down this weekend after not seeing him 4 5 weeks coz he had bin on holiday. it kinda started off good i thought he had posted a really nice post saying how much he loved me and stuff
but then wen he got here i found out that he didnt post it. so many things went through my head like i shld have known and all that crap it really upset me and then we ended up having a really crap weekend. i was really depressed and thought he didnt love me and well we didnt row coz we dont row but he went all quiet and now i dont no whats going on.
hes hardly text me since he got home and now hes at work and really busy i dont no what to do.
i think the best thing is to just leave it and wait for him to come to me so then ill no how he really feels and have a good long chat about whats gonig on.
i sent him a text yesterday saying if he didnt wanna b with me all he had to do was say and he didnt say anything so i guess he wants to b with me.
i dont no
men hey lol
xxxxxxx

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User69701

Because he didn't make a post on a forum you have assumed that he doesn't like you anymore. Men usually only make an effort in the first few weeks of a relationship after they have hooked you things slow. It's harder for men to express their feelings. Usually can only be done with a beer in one hand, a kebab in the other and in front of an oversized television showing sports of some kind. Even then all we can muster are grunts.

You shouldn't avoid arguing either. That isn't going to help the situation. It leads to confusion, as you are experiencing now. Obviously when you are arguing avoid saying things that will damage the relationship ("I was faking it" is a a big no no).

Chances are that he still does like you but is very mad at you right now. Tell him that you are sorry and that you still want to be together.