Back with the Ex before Uni..

hey just needed some good ole TSR pearls of wisdom on this one...

having been split up with my ex boyfriend for almost a year exactly, we got back together recently and started 'seeing' each other again. I was under the impression i was over him, and looking forward to a fresh start at uni in october but when he told me he still had feelings for me, it sort of brought all mine crashing back.

anyway, we are taking everything v.v. slowly and trying to figure out where we went wrong last time but partof me is thinking, we only work in theory and not in practice.. i'm not sure i could get over him a second time. i want to be with him, but i feel like i'm undermining a year's worth of getting better at being stronger..

since we've been seeing each other again, i've found myself back hanging out with all my typical school lot again, who are nice enough people but just people i thought i would never see again.. i associate him with my old life, old school and i just feel a bit like i'm going backwards..

other issue is that, come october, we will be going to the same university and so im not sure how easy it would be to just get over him again (although uni is a big place obv..) does this kind of thing ever ever work? would really appreciate some help, cheers chaps

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

dont all shout at once...

Reply 2

Laika

Well it won't work if you're going to be so pessimistic about it.

Reply 3

username47781

Well all you can do is take it slowly, but at University you will both want your own personal space and thats where there could be problems, also you seem to have doubts so it may be another reason it will not work, again depends on why it broke down the first time, but usually going back is not a good idea.