Coming out for the first time ever... at university! Watch

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So I'm not out to anyone.. not a soul knows. (although friends and parents have suspected for years).

However it's been a long time in the closet and now that I'm starting a new life at uni... there is just no way I am putting up with the closet bull**** anymore. As soon as I step foot in uni next month I will be completely out. To everyone.

I mean, I'm not going to go around 'I AM GAY. I AM COMING OUT' but if someone asks if I have a boyfriend, I will just tell them 'You mean a girlfriend and no, I don't have one currently'

My mom will almost certainly call and ask if I've 'met any cute boys' and I will just tell her I wouldn't notice even if I did, cause I'm too busy looking at the cute girls.

And **** what anyone thinks.

Does anyone else look forward to finally being themselves at uni? And hopefully finally start dating? x
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I'm not out to anyone.. not a soul knows. (although friends and parents have suspected for years).

However it's been a long time in the closet and now that I'm starting a new life at uni... there is just no way I am putting up with the closet bull**** anymore. As soon as I step foot in uni next month I will be completely out. To everyone.

I mean, I'm not going to go around 'I AM GAY. I AM COMING OUT' but if someone asks if I have a boyfriend, I will just tell them 'You mean a girlfriend and no, I don't have one currently'

My mom will almost certainly call and ask if I've 'met any cute boys' and I will just tell her I wouldn't notice even if I did, cause I'm too busy looking at the cute girls.

And **** what anyone thinks.

Does anyone else look forward to finally being themselves at uni? And hopefully finally start dating? x
LOL, that's a brilliant way of coming out. :biggrin:
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I came out a few months into university. And now I have life friends who I will not trade for the world

Good luck.

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i say the same to everyone that being gay is hardly a taboo anymore and the less people in the closet the less society will advance.. like everyone needs to stop treating is as if it isn't a normal thing, i didn't come out as straight to my parents haha
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LOL I didn't mean to post this anonymously. That would be kind of ironic.. haha.
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yaya do it!!
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(Original post by driftawaay)
LOL I didn't mean to post this anonymously. That would be kind of ironic.. haha.
I was going to say that there was a strong username to intent ratio here! :lol:

Go for it. Nobody will really bat an eyelid because, well, they don't already know you.
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For me it won't be my first time coming out, because I'm out to my family already but I can't wait to go to university and be myself! It currently feels like I'm 'stuck in the closet door' lol but in a few weeks time i'll be completely free Can't wait. I'm so comfortable with myself already, coming out for good should really be a breeze.
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