this guy...help!

there is this guy i like so much and i don't know what to do! he knows i like him and it looked as if he might like me back as well. for instance, he always started our conversations on msn, he looked over at me and smiled at me at this party, all his friends asked him what was going on with me and he got all embarrassed and we also spent the day together and hung out the once. and to me we got on well but since then he's blocked me on msn and myspace and i don't know why, and he's been denying it to everyone whos asked him why he's blocked me. but i know he has because he has been online on my friends account but not mine etc. i dont know why he's denying it, he could just tell me if he did it because he doesn't want to talk to me or doesn't like me, right? :frown:

well...the other day... i don't know if it was fate or what, but him and his mate ended up on the same bus as me and my sister. i knew he seen me on there but he was avoiding eye contact and my sister decided to go over and speak to him. she again, asked him about the blocking and he denied it again. :s and he asked her who she was with and when she said my name he looked over at his mate and smiled. anyway, as we got off the bus i turned around and seen him looking at me with a weird expression on his face...nervous ,embarrassed, uncomfortable or something...

i know the best thing to do is move on from him but i can't get him out of my head and this is why im posting on here i guess...

Reply 1

username47781

Maybe he's just shy and never had a girl before, my suggestion is simply perhaps go somewhere together even just to the park and get to know each other, yes you like him but do not rush.

Reply 2

stainedglass

How old are you?

It seems from what you've written that you're coming on to this guy pretty strong, maybe you should take a step back and let there be some mystery for a change.

From my own experience I've found that trying to figure out if a guy likes you from the odd smile when you see him or spending a day together is really only a guessing game. Until he actually says 'I like you' for certain you don't know.

I'd suggest giving him some time apart where you're not constantly asking him why he's blocked you on msn. It might just be a petty reason why he's done so and if that's the case there are better guys out there that are worth your time. If he does add you again then let him talk to you and if things go well suggest meeting up somewhere to get to know each other.

Reply 3

Zafda

ah.

it reminds me of when i liekd this guy and everyone knew, and he was always dead shy around me but he didn't actually fancy me.
he went around and told everyone i liked him tho.. so yeah, that was fun.

you dont really know tbh, maybe he doesnt fancy you but maybe hes not had a girl thats actually liked him like this before, perhaps he finds it exciting?

just don't think about it too much, take it normal.