Upset

So were you or were you not a couple for a short while?

EDIT: sorry, read it again. No I don't think he used you, but I understand you feel hurt. It's good he went back to his ex though.

Reply 2

Yeah you were used it seems the whole reason he stopped was because he had gone back to his ex or maybe he never even broke up with her.

You are worth better than that, cut all contact with that idiot, because he basically only used you, it's his loss.

Reply 3

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hugatree

So were you or were you not a couple for a short while?

EDIT: sorry, read it again. No I don't think he used you, but I understand you feel hurt. It's good he went back to his ex though.

Well if anyone saw us together then they would of thought we were but no "official" we werent.
No its not good he went back to his ex, i no he doesnt want to be with her!

Reply 4

Anonymous

Well if anyone saw us together then they would of thought we were but no "official" we werent.
No its not good he went back to his ex, i no he doesnt want to be with her!

How do you KNOW that? The only reason I can think of them being back together is because he still loves her.

Reply 5

Well if you weren't officially a couple then he had every right, sorry thats what happens when it's just a bit of fun, i think also you are being naive why else would he go back to his ex.

Reply 6

P.S if you wanted him that badly why didn't you two become an official couple.

Reply 7

Carl1982

Well if you weren't officially a couple then he had every right, sorry thats what happens when it's just a bit of fun

Reply 8

Well seriously if he really didn't want his ex he could have just said no, as i said so many times this is the danger with having a casual affair, you will get emotionally attatched and the longer it goes the more you want, that's why causal affairs are not a good idea.

Reply 9

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Carl1982

Well if you weren't officially a couple then he had every right, sorry thats what happens when it's just a bit of fun, i think also you are being naive why else would he go back to his ex.

but it wasnt just a nit of fun!
naive! you dont know his ex girlfriend seriously he didnt love her any more!

Reply 10

Then why are they together now..? Have you asked him?

Reply 11

Triplet1

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ok sorry aboutt he deleted messages :biggrin:

anyway, you've got to forget about him he is back with his ex now sorry but there sint anything you can do!

Reply 12

Anonymous

but it wasnt just a nit of fun!
naive! you dont know his ex girlfriend seriously he didnt love her any more!

YOu just said you two weren't official i mean come on, he had the right to do that, i just said before if he really didn't love her he would have not gone back to her, end of story, i'd move on and find someone else.

Reply 13

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hugatree

Then why are they together now..? Have you asked him?

Because she tells him what to do and he listens to every word of it! I'm going to the same uni as him in september so will stay friends.

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

Why wouldn't he love her?? He obviously does if he is back with her, sorry i know this might sound harsh but i think he just used you as a rebound... as in he was upset and you were the closest thing he had to her. You said you weren't officially seeing her so what was going on? What did you do?

Reply 15

Triplet1

ok sorry aboutt he deleted messages :biggrin:

anyway, you've got to forget about him he is back with his ex now sorry but there sint anything you can do!

I thought you were the OP... :biggrin:

Reply 16

Triplet1

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hugatree

I thought you were the OP... :biggrin:

hehe nah i jsut kept changing my mind on what i wanted to say lol
sorryyy

Reply 17

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Anonymous

Why wouldn't he love her?? He obviously does if he is back with her, sorry i know this might sound harsh but i think he just used you as a rebound... as in he was upset and you were the closest thing he had to her. You said you weren't officially seeing her so what was going on? What did you do?

Sorry. This wasnt meant to turn into why wouldnt he love his girlfriend thread!
I'm off to uni soon so i'm just gona go and have a good time.
Thanks for what people have been saying anyway

Reply 18

Anonymous #2

Sorry i was just curious as to why you would be so sure that he didn't love her, because he is back with her so that shows that he does. What makes you think you had something then if you weren't official? I'm confused!

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