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Hypersomnia, again.

Must be the third time I've posted this here now and every time it's got worse. I'm suffering from hypersomnia, a sleep disorder - as in, I'm getting far far too much of it. I simply cannot wake up in the mornings (or afternoons, or evenings) now. I set at least two alarm clocks and ask my mum to wake me up, which she keeps doing all throughout the day, and I still don't manage to get up. The only reason I've just got up now is because I got upset because it was so late in the day and I had work to do, the same reason I've got up every day... but, today, like every day previous for the last few weeks, I will be far too tired to get on with any work. I wish someone could just say "stop being so bloody lazy" and that would be the end of it (and my mum's done plenty of that), but to me it really doesn't seem like a case of that. Any ideas?

(And please don't tell me to go to my doctor - the only decent doctor round here is a stupid bint who keeps putting me on sleeping tablets. :confused:)

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Reply 1
generalebriety
Must be the third time I've posted this here now and every time it's got worse. I'm suffering from hypersomnia, a sleep disorder - as in, I'm getting far far too much of it. I simply cannot wake up in the mornings (or afternoons, or evenings) now. I set at least two alarm clocks and ask my mum to wake me up, which she keeps doing all throughout the day, and I still don't manage to get up. The only reason I've just got up now is because I got upset because it was so late in the day and I had work to do, the same reason I've got up every day... but, today, like every day previous for the last few weeks, I will be far too tired to get on with any work. I wish someone could just say "stop being so bloody lazy" and that would be the end of it (and my mum's done plenty of that), but to me it really doesn't seem like a case of that. Any ideas?

(And please don't tell me to go to my doctor - the only decent doctor round here is a stupid bint who keeps putting me on sleeping tablets. :confused:)



I suffer from DSPS, but your condition sounds different, I set my alarm clock at least an hour earlier than when I want to get up, then when it goes off, set it again for 30 minutes before I want to get up, then I set it for 15 minutes before, helps me gradually wake up, makes sure I don't sleep in, and gradually wakes me up.
lukeitfc
I suffer from DSPS, but your condition sounds different, I set my alarm clock at least an hour earlier than when I want to get up, then when it goes off, set it again for 30 minutes before I want to get up, then I set it for 15 minutes before, helps me gradually wake up, makes sure I don't sleep in, and gradually wakes me up.

Sounds like an idea. Thing is I won't remember I have to set my alarm clock again when I turn it off the first time. :biggrin: I'll see if I have enough alarm clocks lying around the room to set them all separately... thanks. :smile: Any other suggestions?
Reply 3
generalebriety
Sounds like an idea. Thing is I won't remember I have to set my alarm clock again when I turn it off the first time. :biggrin: I'll see if I have enough alarm clocks lying around the room to set them all separately... thanks. :smile: Any other suggestions?


Yes: hide them. All of them.
Reply 4
generalebriety
Sounds like an idea. Thing is I won't remember I have to set my alarm clock again when I turn it off the first time. :biggrin: I'll see if I have enough alarm clocks lying around the room to set them all separately... thanks. :smile: Any other suggestions?



Two things my doctor told me.

If it's just an irregular sleep patten, try sleeping 15 minutes earlier every couple of days, get into the right sleep pattern - I got bored of this :biggrin:

Also,

Put your alarm clocks accross the room, so you HAVE to get up to turn em off.
Profesh
Yes: hide them. All of them.

Heh, I once hid my loudest alarm clock in a filing box, locked it and hid the key. Still didn't manage to get up. :biggrin: But... will do.
Reply 6
Are you still going to bed at a normal time?
Fleece
Are you still going to bed at a normal time?

Currently, no, I can't, but I have forced myself to do so a few times in the last couple of weeks, and still get 14 hours' sleep or so, no matter what time I go to bed.
Reply 8
The more you carry on like that though, the longer it'll be a problem.

You need to get your clock sorted - I've been doing a similar thing to you - lately it's got to the point though where I'm getting to sleep at 7am and waking up really late.

I forced myself to get up at 11am today, so now i'm absolutely shattered. Tomorrow I'm going to set my alarm for around 10. Just so I can regain some sort of sleep schedule.

You really just need to force yourself to get out of bed. I know that's a lot harder than it sounds! You will be tired at first, but keep at it.... The longer you sleep, the more tired you'll be.
Reply 9
I'm usually harsh and chuck a verbal bucket of acid in these kinds of threads, but you are a mathmo, so I won't. I think the best thing to do is to force yourself to get up modestly early one day like 9am and stay up doing things. Do something to prevent you going back to bed, like turning the bed over or taking the sheets off and putting them in the wash. Then get into a routine: breakfast, wash hands face + teeth, get dressed.
Reply 10
Fleece
The more you carry on like that though, the longer it'll be a problem.

You need to get your clock sorted - I've been doing a similar thing to you - lately it's got to the point though where I'm getting to sleep at 7am and waking up really late.

I forced myself to get up at 11am today, so now i'm absolutely shattered. Tomorrow I'm going to set my alarm for around 10. Just so I can regain some sort of sleep schedule.

You really just need to force yourself to get out of bed. I know that's a lot harder than it sounds! You will be tired at first, but keep at it.... The longer you sleep, the more tired you'll be.


Sounds like DSPS to me, get it diagnosed.
Reply 11
lukeitfc
Sounds like DSPS to me, get it diagnosed.


But what good would that do?

I've been to doctor's more times than I can remember about my sleep problems, but I've not been able to find a solution.
Reply 12
Fleece
But what good would that do?

I've been to doctor's more times than I can remember about my sleep problems, but I've not been able to find a solution.



Ask about chronotherapy, basically, rather than going to sleep, you stay awake, no matter how tired you are, until the normal sleep time, so if you'd normally go to sleep at 7AM, like I normally do, you'll go to bet at 10pm that night. I can't do this though, I'm asleep by noon.

I think certain courses of drugs can help to, like certain hormones or something.

You've gotta tell your doctor you need something though, and that he/she is actually ****.
An alarm clock with one of those double bells and a little hammer that hits them is probably the most horrendous thing in the world to wake you up, but it does the job. Get several, set them to go off within a minute or so of each other and scatter them around your room. Got me up in time for my exams :smile:
I apologise if this seems like a crude solution, but a thomas tank always wakes me up more effectively than alarm clocks.
Reply 15
lukeitfc
Ask about chronotherapy, basically, rather than going to sleep, you stay awake, no matter how tired you are, until the normal sleep time, so if you'd normally go to sleep at 7AM, like I normally do, you'll go to bet at 10pm that night. I can't do this though, I'm asleep by noon.

I think certain courses of drugs can help to, like certain hormones or something.

You've gotta tell your doctor you need something though, and that he/she is actually ****.


Well no, they're not **** - i've seen a lot of different ones so it's not just one guy's opinion.

I don't want to be taking drugs or hormones to sleep properly.

Like I said, I forced myself to get up today, so I should be ok to sleep tonight fairly early. Although as per, I usually go past the tired stage and become away again at about 1am.

Ah well.
Reply 16
Fleece
Well no, they're not **** - i've seen a lot of different ones so it's not just one guy's opinion.

I don't want to be taking drugs or hormones to sleep properly.

Like I said, I forced myself to get up today, so I should be ok to sleep tonight fairly early. Although as per, I usually go past the tired stage and become away again at about 1am.

Ah well.



As long as you're not affected seriously by this, that's what matters I suppose :smile:
Reply 17
I am sometimes. I was pretty much at the end of my tether around exam time - I hadn't slept for days. Uni were good though and said I could have extra time if I wanted.

Comes in phases really, but I've never had a normal sleep pattern.
Reply 18
Fleece
I am sometimes. I was pretty much at the end of my tether around exam time - I hadn't slept for days. Uni were good though and said I could have extra time if I wanted.

Comes in phases really, but I've never had a normal sleep pattern.



I wonder if uni would give me some extra time etc cause of my condition? It's diagnosed and everything, so hmmm. Never really thought about it.
Reply 19
I'm always tired......but i'm anaemic. I don't know how relevant this is lol.