Fear of Boys?

Im off to Uni, like a lot of people on here and i have a problem, i think im scared of boys- probably more so, relationships. Ive never let myself get close to someone, the truth is that im scared. I have little self-confidence. Im a quiet person, but in front of people i think i put on some form of act, im loud and funny- no-one really knows that im insecure and shy because try not to show it. I dont have any boy friends as such, but i am friendly with some. The thing is, im scared that at Uni this will prevent me from joining in, and also getting into a relationship- and as i'll be behind everyone else things will be made harder. I dont want to lie about my past, and make-up experience, but then again it will be hard to be one of the few who have had no experience with boys and i dont want people to think im something im not. Im not religious or anything, theres no reason for any of this, except that i find it hard to put my trust in someone. I dont go out to clubs to pull for example, I go out to have a good time. I dont think i could even be comfortable getting completely drunk and pulling someone. Its not just the confort thing as well, i have doubts all the time that 'they dont fancy me anyway' or 'im just a quick pull' and i dont feel right about that. I just want to find someone who would value a relationship, and is comfortable with the fact that im inexperienced.
This was nice to get it off my chest, ive never told anyone any of this, just avoided the question/situation. I dont really know what im looking for in the way of advice, but any would be great as its been on my mind a bit and i'd rather get this problem sorted sooner rather than later! Thanks

im guessing youve just come from an all girls school or something?

guys are nothing to be scared of, they are just like girls except that most want to get in your pants *waits for the flaming to start*

Im off to Uni, like a lot of people on here and i have a problem, i think im scared of boys- probably more so, relationships. Ive never let myself get close to someone, the truth is that im scared. I have little self-confidence. Im a quiet person, but in front of people i think i put on some form of act, im loud and funny- no-one really knows that im insecure and shy because try not to show it. I dont have any boy friends as such, but i am friendly with some. The thing is, im scared that at Uni this will prevent me from joining in, and also getting into a relationship- and as i'll be behind everyone else things will be made harder. I dont want to lie about my past, and make-up experience, but then again it will be hard to be one of the few who have had no experience with boys and i dont want people to think im something im not. Im not religious or anything, theres no reason for any of this, except that i find it hard to put my trust in someone. I dont go out to clubs to pull for example, I go out to have a good time. I dont think i could even be comfortable getting completely drunk and pulling someone. Its not just the confort thing as well, i have doubts all the time that 'they dont fancy me anyway' or 'im just a quick pull' and i dont feel right about that. I just want to find someone who would value a relationship, and is comfortable with the fact that im inexperienced.
This was nice to get it off my chest, ive never told anyone any of this, just avoided the question/situation. I dont really know what im looking for in the way of advice, but any would be great as its been on my mind a bit and i'd rather get this problem sorted sooner rather than later! Thanks

The fact that i don't fit in with the student lifestyle being teetotal as well as seemingly socially inept, just polishes it all off.

From what ive heard, you wont be the only teetotal-er at uni, and it should not stop you from socialising. If it does, those people are seriously not worth the effort.

if you are already friendly with some boys, try to get to know them better as friends and you'll find out boys aren't so bad. you don't have to go out deliberately looking for a boyfriend, just wait, eventually a guy you like will come along. till then just build up your confidence talking to guys.