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Looks or personality

I was talking to my mate and he asked something interesting, he said would I rather have the most beutiful woman on earth with the worst personality, or the ugliest woman on Earth with the nicest personality. I chose the nicest looking woman, Im sure most others would too, which means that we consider looks to be more important. Or am I wrong?

Reply 1

theflcgal

im a straight girl so i'll take your question to be about men :wink:

if i was just looking for a little fling or something then id say the most gorgeous guy with the worst personality. but in a boyfriend and long term partner then definately the nicest personality with no looks.

Reply 2

saturn

OP

theflcgal

im a straight girl so i'll take your question to be about men :wink:

if i was just looking for a little fling or something then id say the most gorgeous guy with the worst personality. but in a boyfriend and long term partner then definately the nicest personality with no looks.

Are you sure? Think about what the ugliest person in the world would look like.

Reply 3

captain_yesterday

worst personality would get boring or annoying or upsetting quite quickly (it depends on your definition of "worst" :p:

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i think that more or less answers it

Reply 4

captain_yesterday

actually come to think of it i'd rather have neither.

maybe most gorgeous for a quick shag (lol i did a funny)

Reply 5

matchu

2

Girls with bad personalitys bate.

I'd prefer to go out with a potato

Reply 6

ciara

13

how many times has this been done?

the fit girl is out of your league and the top personality girl is too good for you :smile:

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Reply 7

smirf83

3

Both these hypothetical cases are rather extreme, a happy medium would be best. :smile:

Reply 8

KinkayGema

11

both- marry the gorgeous 1 and have an affair with the stinker

Reply 9

dyslexic_banana

1

I favour personality over looks, any day of the week, but this one is a close call; I think this is perhaps because you could oppose the beautiful girl's awful personality (by physically restraining her if she came at you, or yelling at her if she said nasty things), more than you could the nice girl's awful looks; the looks, you'd be stuck with, although I suppose you could avoid looking at her (I'm thinking in terms of the ugliest girl imaginable, here).

The thing is, like many people, I can feel attraction without feeling love, but not love without attraction; despite considering personality to be more important than looks. So, I could feel attraction, but not love, towards the beautiful girl, but nothing more than feelings of friendship, towards the ugly girl. Looking at it from that angle, at least I could enjoy sex with the pretty girl. However, to me, a bad personality is ugly, so it's a close call........no, can't decide.

Reply 10

dannywales

1

I couldn't go out with someone with zero personality, even though I would have to think they were good looking to go out with them.

Like another poster said, a happy medium please :wink:

Reply 11

dyslexic_banana

1

Come on, people; what about if you had to choose one or the other?

Reply 12

Zlatan

1

KinkayGema

both- marry the gorgeous 1 and have an affair with the stinker

What planet are you on?? - Can't say pluto! haha.

Who the hell would have an affair with a fat ugly stinker?

As for the question, good looking woman every time.

Reply 13

KinkayGema

11

yeh but then u get the best of bold worlds. the stinker wud make u feel special and the hot 1 wud make u feel wet!

Reply 14

Zlatan

1

To be honest, I wouldn't feel too special standing next to a circus freak.

I'm not sure 'wet' would be one of the things the hot woman would make me feel. :wink:

Reply 15

KinkayGema

11

well im a girl so its different 4 me

Reply 16

dyslexic_banana

1

Zlatan

What planet are you on?? - Can't say pluto! haha.

Who the hell would have an affair with a fat ugly stinker?

As for the question, good looking woman every time.

A good-looking woman who would probably shout and scream at you, physically attack you, and maybe even try to kill you (well, the question did concern the worst personality)?

Reply 17

Zlatan

1

physically attack me? get out of town. I guess we've all got to die sometime. But i'll have enjoyed a happy life being with the hottest woman in the world, rather than hanging around with a dump truck.

Reply 18

Laura Lou

13

I couldn't cope with either!
If someone was really boring/horrible personality I would get so wound up and stressed I wouldn't be able to cope. And if someone was really ugly then I doubt I would be able to touch them (or have them touch me) no matter how nice a person they were.

Reply 19

dyslexic_banana

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Zlatan

physically attack me? get out of town. I guess we've all got to die sometime. But i'll have enjoyed a happy life being with the hottest woman in the world, rather than hanging around with a dump truck.

I think you would have to "get out of town", for your own safety. Your own safety aside, say if she was a mass-murderess? Would that not take the edge off the great love-making sessions, somewhat?

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