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    A cute girl i work with invited the whole office to a bbq at her place tomorrow. I got her number and said id be there but right now im getting cold feet. I keep thinking of the worst that'll happen such as be embarrassed publicly in front of everyone.

    I don't wanna come off like an arrogant **** by not showing up esp after i said i would and her giving me her number directly. I have a little crush on her but i don't feel confident in pursuing it nor hanging out with other people.

    HELP??
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    Do it for the bbq food man
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    You have two options:

    1) go and socialise and have a good time if you can, or

    2) make up some excuse like you had a family emergency and don't go.

    I would go with 1.

    If you have a crush on her then how on earth is she going to fall for you if you're not there to catch her?
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    (Original post by jay2013)
    You have two options:

    1) go and socialise and have a good time if you can, or

    2) make up some excuse like you had a family emergency and don't go.

    I would go with 1.

    If you have a crush on her then how on earth is she going to fall for you if you're not there to catch her?
    LMAO, you don't even know if she'll fall for me. She's really beautiful.
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    It seems she has developed feelings for you. Has she showed any intentions of her falling for you?
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    OP did she say "fun in the house" only to you? If so you should definitely go. Even if she didn't you should go because there's no adequate reason for missing a BBQ.
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    (Original post by inachigeek21)
    It seems she has developed feelings for you. Has she showed any intentions of her falling for you?
    Turns out she has a boyfriend. We just had pancakes and smoked some weed. I couldn't even talk to her properly.
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    Turns out she has a boyfriend. We just had pancakes and smoked some weed. I couldn't even talk to her properly.
    People waste too much time by over-thinking.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Turns out she has a boyfriend. We just had pancakes and smoked some weed. I couldn't even talk to her properly.
    Eesh, sorry for that.
    Did you regret going?
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    (Original post by Enoxial)
    People waste too much time by over-thinking.
    What do you mean by that?
 
 
 
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