how do i handle a my mums boyfriend. hes never liked me, first time i met him he said that whenever i see my mum hes gonna be there so i better get used to it.. (she had affair with him) we had a massive fight, but my mum just stood there and cried. hen once put my dinner in the bin because he said i had made me and my brother late for dinner on purpose. he gets annoyed if my mum talks to me when hes with her.. hes controlling ive always seen it. but not long ago, my mum admitted it, calling me up in tears saying he had left, and said hes such a control freak. i dont know what happened however. she always defends him when i confront her about him. also, shes an alcoholic and he always asks her if she wants more wine, and sometimes she says no and he still pours her some. i dont know how to get him out of my mums life, he is not good for her...but shes too scared to be alone