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Ex boyfriend

I was with my ex boyfriend for 2.5 years and he helped me through all the tough times in my life, GCSE's, AS Levels, my parents divorce, appendicitus you name he was there. He was such a great guy but i split up with him last december because he was too obsessed, too over protective and it got too much (to the point where i wouldn't bother going out coz it was too much hassle to bring him round to the idea).

SO what is te problem you ask, lol. I've been going out with this guy 7 months now but everytime i need comforting i always just want a big hug from my ex bf (who btw hasn't been talking to me since we broke up) and i don' know what to do. I know that me and my current boyfriend are fizzling out, which is fin, i can deal with that but i can' get my x bf out of my mind,d espite being pretty sure i don't want him back! what t do what to do...
Well it certainly seems you are not over him and that you still love him, maybe it wasn't a good idea getting with your next boyfriend so soon after, maybe have a chat with your current boyfriend and see if you can revive your relationship first, but clearly contact with your ex is perhaps why your current relationship is struggling.
Reply 2
Get over or get with, simple as that :rolleyes:
You have to remember your ex is an ex for a reason, you dumped him for being obsessed and protective do you really want to go back to that, on the other hand maybe has being like that because of all the problems you had, maybe he didn't realise you can take care of yourself now.
Reply 4
darryl
Get over or get with, simple as that :rolleyes:



haha nice and simple advice:redface: :smile:
Reply 5
pinkaliengoo
haha nice and simple advice:redface: :smile:

Well why complicate things further :p:
Reply 6
Carl1982
You have to remember your ex is an ex for a reason, you dumped him for being obsessed and protective do you really want to go back to that, on the other hand maybe has being like that because of all the problems you had, maybe he didn't realise you can take care of yourself now.



i don't want to get back with him, im pretty sure about that but i really miss him. I think i see all the things missing in my current relationship that were there with my ex and i think damn, i need more.
Maybe tell your current boyfriend you want to do something more exciting with him, i still think though your confused about what you really want.