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Reply 1
Don't know about everyone else, but I tend to get jealous/paranoid quite easily. Not so much that it ruins things, but enough to annoy me. :P

It can be a bit boring if you're out with all your single friends and you're the only one not trying to pull. :| Although most my friends are in relationships, so that's only happened once or twice.

I don't know, really...
Spending so much on texts and calls. - so worth it though!

Being far apart when you don't want to be. - although I guess that can help to strengthen a relationship.

Arguments that weren't necessary, usually a result of a misunderstanding or one or both of you being stupid.

When you realise the relationship is over. - also can be good if you want it to be.

Upsetting your partner.
Being a control freak or possessive is very bad.
Reply 4
knowing you will never be with them

if they have cheated on you the pain

knowing all the possible bad outcomes and getting little punches in you tummy

have a big distance between you

when they are not there and you really need them

missing them like hell and crying your eyes out

knwwing were they are is a dangerous place and worried for them all the time

when they are hurt
Reply 5
hmm, interesting.

i find being away from him pretty annoying, its not always bad though, it just makes me wonder whether things are deteriorating or what.

sometimes thinking about whether the relationship is going to get anywheres pretty irritating.
Zafda
hmm, interesting.

i find being away from him pretty annoying, its not always bad though, it just makes me wonder whether things are deteriorating or what.

sometimes thinking about whether the relationship is going to get anywheres pretty irritating.


If you need to think about whether your relationship is going anywhere, I'd say you're in the wrong relationship to be honest.

Time apart can be good. Depends how you view it I suppose.
Reply 7
yeah i know what you mean.

mind you this is of a relationship that isn't a boyfriend girlfriend (yet) relationship..

yeah i agree time apart can be good, but waiting for that time apart to be over can kill at times, expecially if you don't have anything to divert your mind from it.
Reply 8
Sometimes its nice not having to consider someone else's view over stuff like you do in a relationship.

Spending less time with your friends in order to have time to see your bf/gf. Since being single I've seen my mates all the time & would have felt I was missing out on things with them, not saying being with a bf/gf isn't as good/better but not what I want right now!
Reply 9
Untold secrets.
When you lose the sparks and everything becomes very samey and boring.
Arguments.
Possessiveness (for me, one of the worst. I need my independence)
Zafda


yeah i agree time apart can be good, but waiting for that time apart to be over can kill at times, expecially if you don't have anything to divert your mind from it.


So so true. But when the wait's over then it's fantastic!
Reply 11
aw.
you're so into your relationship arent you!
Zafda
aw.
you're so into your relationship arent you!


Is it that obvious? :biggrin:

14th September ... then the waiting's over :biggrin: :biggrin:
Reply 13
Sazarina88
Is it that obvious? :biggrin:

14th September ... then the waiting's over :biggrin: :biggrin:


thats my brothers birthday! (and the day my grandad dies, r.i.p)
its not that its obvious, its really nice..
Zafda
thats my brothers birthday! (and the day my grandad dies, r.i.p)
its not that its obvious, its really nice..


You know when you're Grandad's going to die? :confused:

So what's going on with your relationship that isn't a relationship yet if you don't mind me asking?
Reply 15
oh my bad, i meant died// spelling error, s is next to d on the keyboard.

i really dunno about my effing stupid !!

basically i really like someone, and we spoke to each other loads before the exams and had become pretty close at school. i didn't have a clue whether he liked me in that way but we had spent some pretty special times together, not like kissing or anything.. just quality time where we opened up etc.
so yeah, he treated me (i'd say) much better than his friends, and the last proper conversation we had he said.. i like you, you like me, its the truth.. but i didn't see the point of him saying it as, look i like you as a friend.

so yeah, we've gotten pretty close, hes not really close with many girls because he comes across as yeah.. you get my drift.

its been a few weeks and i've not heard from him, last i saw of him was on results day.

its as if its more than a friendship but i don't have a clue if its at that stage yet.. yet it feels like it should be.

gah im confused!
Well if the spark simply goes you can work together to revive it.
Do you have each other's phone numbers? Have you tried contacting him since then?

Even if it doesn't work out, you're bound to find someone and then all the things in the "What are the best things about a relationship?" thread can apply to youuuuuuuuuu!

Sorry to hear about your Grandad.
Reply 18
i have tried, but not enough.
i'm really really lazy, and its like i want to but i don't.. i should, but i'm out of credit haha.

as for what you said, that was really nice.. i hope i do, i'm not too fussed anyway, i think as soon as school starts again i'll be focused on uni and stuff (hes left =[ twwwwat)

my grandad died in 2001, its odd because i still miss him heaps. you'd think it'd wear off after a few years but nah.. ah well, he's somewhere where he won't have to bear with all the stuff we have to.
You said yourself that you haven't tried enough! But yeah, I'd see how you feel when you go back to school.

My Dad died April 2005 and I still miss him loads, think I always will. If you want to talk about it at all, I'm only a PM away!