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Rejected

i feel like utter shi*. Theres this girl i really like, and i got her msn from a friend, and shes friendly around me and all my mates, and so i started chatting to her on msn, she was so sweet. Then i asked her if she wanted to go out to a bar sometime n have a few drinks, and she said "Nah, i dont think so". I hardly ever ask out girls because im not so good looking myself, but on this one occasion i mustered up the courage, and this was the response.. i dont know what to do..

Reply 1

matt@internet

12

Get over it. It's her loss as well as yours'.

Reply 2

dh00001

16

you win some you loose some, sorry pal all there is to say. use it as an experience and remember all the things you did right and how you got the courage to do it for next time :smile:

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

If you can't handle rejection on msn I dunno how you're gonna cope face to face.

Reply 4

lilac!!

15

well these things can hurt but them you have also got to look at it this way, she wasnt ment for you and therefore isnt, got out and find someone who is!! :smile:

Reply 5

Johnny 5

12

matt@internet

Get over it. It's her loss as well as yours'.

How'd you work that one out?

Reply 6

matt@internet

12

I dunno, isn't it what your supposed to say? It's her loss? Plus it's his cos he wanted to go out with her and she rejected him.

Reply 7

nas7232

19

2 5 +

How'd you work that one out?

& how did you work out that 2+2=5 lol

Reply 8

loggins

17

Maybe you should have been less wimpish and asked her out to her face? She probably didn't think much to your online proposal, very impersonal...

Reply 9

username47781

20

Least you tried, some girls are just generally not interested, no need to rush, there are lots more single girls out there.

Reply 10

Johnny 5

12

nas7232

& how did you work out that 2+2=5 lol

A friend told me, Winston something. He loves Big Brother, anyway, that's how we all remember him.

Reply 11

nas7232

19

It's only msn, she weren't rude about it so don't worry... and it doesn't seem like you two were really tight and that you may of damaged a great friendship. Best thing to do is move on and forget about it or learn that there is no point getting sad over this, worse stuff may happen later on and you can't afford to be getting sad over this situation. Good luck.

Reply 12

hermajesty

6

Anonymous

i feel like utter shi*. Theres this girl i really like, and i got her msn from a friend, and shes friendly around me and all my mates, and so i started chatting to her on msn, she was so sweet. Then i asked her if she wanted to go out to a bar sometime n have a few drinks, and she said "Nah, i dont think so". I hardly ever ask out girls because im not so good looking myself, but on this one occasion i mustered up the courage, and this was the response.. i dont know what to do..

Are you sure that she's rejecting you? Does she drink much usually? Maybe she just feels uncomfortable with going out drinking with a guy she doesn't know that well.

I think perhaps you should try again, maybe asking her to the cinema or something. If you can do it to her face that might be more effective, but I understand that might be difficult if you're shy. Obviously if she says no again then you should drop it and just stay friends. But as you like her so much, i think its worth being a little persistant.

Reply 13

TheIdiot

Nothing to be ashamed of.
If it helps, she was probably very ugly anyway. :smile:

Reply 14

matt@internet

12

2 5 +

A friend told me, Winston something. He loves Big Brother, anyway, that's how we all remember him.

So did Stephen Hawking.

Reply 15

Pandy

10

TheIdiot

Nothing to be ashamed of.
If it helps, she was probably very ugly anyway. :smile:

Yeah, that helps. "You asked out a most probably ugly girl." :rolleyes:

Anyway, whatever OP. Try face to face next time though. Harder to do, but far more personal than words on a screen.

Reply 16

notts

Anonymous

If you can't handle rejection on msn I dunno how you're gonna cope face to face.

you're a jerk.
and a coward.

to the OP, just keep your chin up, and keep trying.

you are going to get rejected A LOT during your life (everyone does)

the pain will go soon enough.