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why am I such a miserable, antisocial cow

I am such a moody, nasty person. I never used to be this way. I used to live life to the full with my friends, socialise with everyone but since I started working and got with my current boyfriend I have changed. He did not change me, but I started staying indoors more and shutting myself out. Two years on, I am fed up, miserabke and depressed. My boyfriend drinks occasionally and I just watch tv all day and work. I am forcing myself togo out this weekend and start socialising. I was forced by my boyfriend to go out with him for the day with this group of family. I dislike children, and hate group socialising. I was disengaged the whole time, walking behind or in front... going in to random shops. I am just a nasty antisocialist who cannot help myself or even make an effort. I told my boyfriend I did not want to go but was practically forced to any way. I cannot stand this! Everything and everyone gets on my nerves. I am either my own company or a one to one interaction only. I need to get this out of my system as I am on the way to this trip I was forced to go onto and my boyfriend keeps telling me to cheer up. :frown:
Please tell us about the event which forced you to turn your back on people?

(You say that you used to be very social so something must have changed you if it's not your boyfriend. Maybe you have to start explaining this to your boyfriend and make him understand. If he doesn't then he won't ever need to be your boyfriend anymore)
(edited 9 years ago)

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