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Ok,
I had this girl who liked me, I liked her etc. We talked alot on MSN and I was never able to catch on that she liked me (Im a guy, gimme a break). I liked her, she liked me, but I didn't know she liked me (she did, friends of hers told me). Things kinda went downhill and we stopped talking for like 5 or so months, maybe a bit more. She is a nice girl and I would love to just be able to talk to her again, relationship or no, but things are so awkward, any suggestions? Do I try and pull a let's forget the past thing? Appologize (even tho I really didnt do anything wrong other than not catch her hints that she liked me)?
Let me know, PLEASE!!
I had this girl who liked me, I liked her etc. We talked alot on MSN and I was never able to catch on that she liked me (Im a guy, gimme a break). I liked her, she liked me, but I didn't know she liked me (she did, friends of hers told me). Things kinda went downhill and we stopped talking for like 5 or so months, maybe a bit more. She is a nice girl and I would love to just be able to talk to her again, relationship or no, but things are so awkward, any suggestions? Do I try and pull a let's forget the past thing? Appologize (even tho I really didnt do anything wrong other than not catch her hints that she liked me)?
Let me know, PLEASE!!
Reply 1
If shes still on the same MSN address maybe write her an email.
Reply 2
If you didn't do anything wrong, no need to apologise.
Can you explain why things went downhill?
Is your only contact with her on MSN?
Can you explain why things went downhill?
Is your only contact with her on MSN?
Reply 3
When she comes online (assuming neither of you has blocked either one) just go "Hi!" and talk like normal. That can often completely erase a situation that wasn't even really a situation, people just thought it up into one. If the subject of what happened (not that anything did, but you know) arises, then you can apologise if need be.
Works for me quite a lot, but people respond to things differently.
Works for me quite a lot, but people respond to things differently.
Reply 4
Ok,
We go to school together, so MSN isn't the only way of communicating.
Things went downhill, I think, because I couldn't tell at all if she liked me as a friend or more than that. I got a friend of mine who is good friends with her to ask her and tell me what she said. The girl told my friend that she did not like me, that message was passed to me. I kinda stopped starting conversations to see if she would, she didnt. Then she told my friend that she did like me, I kinda got pissed. Oh ****....I blocked her, forgot about that, but it was for like 5 seconds, actually a mistake!! I apologised for that already tho. After that we kinda stopped talking less, but still often, it used to be like 4 hours a day. I asked her to go and meet me at this place to talk, but I forgot she was working, and I just stopped approaching to let her, and she didnt...
Am I missing something??
We go to school together, so MSN isn't the only way of communicating.
Things went downhill, I think, because I couldn't tell at all if she liked me as a friend or more than that. I got a friend of mine who is good friends with her to ask her and tell me what she said. The girl told my friend that she did not like me, that message was passed to me. I kinda stopped starting conversations to see if she would, she didnt. Then she told my friend that she did like me, I kinda got pissed. Oh ****....I blocked her, forgot about that, but it was for like 5 seconds, actually a mistake!! I apologised for that already tho. After that we kinda stopped talking less, but still often, it used to be like 4 hours a day. I asked her to go and meet me at this place to talk, but I forgot she was working, and I just stopped approaching to let her, and she didnt...
Am I missing something??
Reply 5
Maybe she's just crazy shy. If she thinks you don't/didn't like her she's probably not going to put herself out there on nothing. Or, she could be doing the same as you and waiting for you to make the move 
Reply 6
It doesn't sound like too much went wrong that can't be repaired/forgotten/talked about.
I'd just talk to her as someone suggested and see how things go. Perhaps even explain to her what you've told us if you haven't already done so.
Good luck!
I'd just talk to her as someone suggested and see how things go. Perhaps even explain to her what you've told us if you haven't already done so.
Good luck!
Reply 7
ok, thanks for the suggestions. What do you guys suggest tho, do I talk to her on MSN ASAP, or do I just talk to her in person in 2 days (first day of school)?
If anybody else has any suggestions, I am still open to ideas
If anybody else has any suggestions, I am still open to ideas
Reply 8
Anonymous
ok, thanks for the suggestions. What do you guys suggest tho, do I talk to her on MSN ASAP, or do I just talk to her in person in 2 days (first day of school)?
If anybody else has any suggestions, I am still open to ideas
If anybody else has any suggestions, I am still open to ideas
Which do you think would be easier? More comfortable? Etc. Do you think over the Internet or face to face would be better? You know her and yourself far more than we do, think about which would be for the best!
Reply 9
Fair Enough, I will probably try in person
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