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All you can do is talk to him about it AND explain to him how you're feeling. Tell him he's hurting you and that you're seriously thinking about ending the relationship if things dont change, he may not realise how much he is hurting you and needs telling" I guess boys need time to adjust to new situations but he does sound a bit out of order with the other girls and that. I think talking is the only answer here..good luck xx
I agree with sam you need to talk to him about these issues.
Reply 3
hes upsetting you, so let him know. you said he hasnt been in a relationship before. maybe he needs a bit of guidance
Reply 4
wow.
you need to sit him down and chat to him again about how hes making you feel, don't point out what hes doing unless you make it clear how it makes you feel (pretty poo i pressume).

also do the same back to him if it doesn't work, give him a taste of his own medicine, point out fit guys and other things, it may make him realise what hes doing.

you don't have to go for tactic 2 but if hes paying much more attention to other girls then maybe hes not ready for a relationship with you.
so_this_is_sam
All you can do is talk to him about it AND explain to him how you're feeling. Tell him he's hurting you and that you're seriously thinking about ending the relationship if things dont change, he may not realise how much he is hurting you and needs telling" I guess boys need time to adjust to new situations but he does sound a bit out of order with the other girls and that. I think talking is the only answer here..good luck xx


exactly , need to have a talk with each other. :smile: