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Nice guy, but...
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Reply 20
Cadre_Of_Storms
the guys shy so you think hes guy wow now theres a jump.
Give him another chance second time round he should be more comfortable with you
Give him another chance second time round he should be more comfortable with you
A very true point, most guys I do think are guys.
no i dont think hes gay and having many girls friends does not mean a thing, maybe like you said he is a gentleman and therefore very popular with girls?? also tell him you like him, i mean if he was gay he would so not take you out for a start and would know it himself, hes just shy! 
Reply 23
Anonymous
It might be worth mentioning that he does act rather gay... His voice is rather camp sounding, he just happens to remind me of a gay guy I know ANYWAY, and just has really camp manorisms 
I know I shouldn't generalise but if you met him, and had to guess his sexuality, you'd probably say he wasn't straight!
I know I shouldn't generalise but if you met him, and had to guess his sexuality, you'd probably say he wasn't straight!I recently went on a date with a girl from here and I'm kind of camp Hmmm... Wait a second... You bitch!
Reply 26
Ross_j
don't think he's gay, just inexperienced and shy.
yeah it would suggest he is simply shy, but take it step by step with him you never know where it might go.
Reply 27
I think i'm going to try to tell him I like him... but in a subtle way if that's possible, so that if he *is* gay or just not interested, i'll realise before making a fool of myself
Now for the other hurdle, the age gap! Hurrah!
Now for the other hurdle, the age gap! Hurrah!
Reply 28
Whats the age gap and anyway you never know until you ask but as i said take it slow and get to know him a little more.
Reply 30
I sound over heels? Blimey! I didn't think I was...
Put it this way, i'm older than him by two years but the two years between us are the two years in which one would expect him to mature somewhat. I think he needs to a bit, he's not really a man yet!
Put it this way, i'm older than him by two years but the two years between us are the two years in which one would expect him to mature somewhat. I think he needs to a bit, he's not really a man yet!
Reply 32
does he know chewwy?
Reply 34
Shreerac1
Tell him that one of your friends thought he was gay and see how he reacts. Easy
That could offend him quite a lot!
I have no idea if he knows Chewwy.
Reply 35
if he does turn out to be gay - let me know - I'll look after him 
Anonymous
The reason for this I think, is because he might be gay, but I don't think he realises he is. He has very few male friends and seems to get on much better with girls.
How does that make him gay. I happen to get on with girls a lot better then guys and I'm straight. I just get the impression that he is very inexperienced and shy, and therefore doesn't have a clue how to act with women.
Then again, you could be married and still not know how to act with women.
Anonymous
We'll call the guy Tom.
Last week I went to the cinema with this guy, and I really enjoyed myself. He was the perfect gentleman, he picked me up, paid for my ticket etc. but something just wasn't right. He seemed slightly clumsy around a girl, I don't think he's had a girlfriend before.
The reason for this I think, is because he might be gay, but I don't think he realises he is. He has very few male friends and seems to get on much better with girls. We had a great time and I do really like him, I think I may even fancy this guy and we seemed semi-cosy when sat in the cinema. We didn't kiss or anything but our faces seemed pretty close, I think it could have easily developed into a kiss.
Now i'm really confused, should I tell him that I sort of like him or what? Towards me he's just very chatty and generally very nice. Made a few subtle hints that he may like me too. Help or advice anyone? Thanks!
Last week I went to the cinema with this guy, and I really enjoyed myself. He was the perfect gentleman, he picked me up, paid for my ticket etc. but something just wasn't right. He seemed slightly clumsy around a girl, I don't think he's had a girlfriend before.
The reason for this I think, is because he might be gay, but I don't think he realises he is. He has very few male friends and seems to get on much better with girls. We had a great time and I do really like him, I think I may even fancy this guy and we seemed semi-cosy when sat in the cinema. We didn't kiss or anything but our faces seemed pretty close, I think it could have easily developed into a kiss.
Now i'm really confused, should I tell him that I sort of like him or what? Towards me he's just very chatty and generally very nice. Made a few subtle hints that he may like me too. Help or advice anyone? Thanks!
What you mean by clumsy exactly???
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