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normal relationship? will it last??

okay humm im sorry if this become long but ill try to keep it as simple as possible

okay met up with him in december, he liked me before he actually came over to london, (live in 2 different counties) we become good friends and he got to know about my crush (although he was very jealious), anyway they came foe a week and on the last day i could not sleep due to them leaving and cryed so much after they left, we then kept in touch through mail and chat, i told him i was over my crush and 2 weeks later he told me he liked me, we then meet again in april, both went back to our home country as a holiday and saw each other again.

its been almost 8 months now and sometimes i get really scared if the distance between us will actually separate us. I told him how i feel and all he said was "do you trust me?" i said yes and he was very conforting however i still have concerns and i just wanted to get a few more opinions!
both of is are 16 by the way
Reply 1
pretty much pointless imo unless you have a "the only one for me" type of relationship going, sorry.
Anonymous
okay humm im sorry if this become long but ill try to keep it as simple as possible

on the last day i could not sleep due to them leaving and cryed so much after they left, i just wanted to get a few more opinions!
both of is are 16 by the way


I almost cried myself after all those typos...
Reply 3
thanks for hepling her eveyone!
well look, these relationships are very hard but you have got to ask yourself, are you ready to go out with someone who lives a million miles away from you? then there you have your answer
Reply 4
i dont really understand about the crush part. but i myself would struglle with a long distance relationship but if you both like eachother alot an want to be together an can make it work then its worth it, are you actualy going to get to spend alot of time together in the future? if there is trust then it should work
Reply 5
makky, do you come here to point out spellings etc, seriously now, look at your post.
Reply 6
Distance is one of the hardest things to judge a relationship by, and especially because you are jumping right in the deep end there.

There is no point pondering what will happen because everyday life throws you a hand. You'll figure out sooner or later if this distance is worth fighting for, if you want him that badly then there is no reason at all why you both cant make it work.

There doesnt have to be a trust issue just because he lives so far away, it just means that you like to feel close to him and know that hes near you and perhaps him being so far away its hard for you.

Just see what happens, you don't have to be scared, and no1 knows if it will last, its all down to what you want.
Reply 7
Anonymous
okay humm im sorry if this become long but ill try to keep it as simple as possible

okay met up with him in december, he liked me before he actually came over to london, (live in 2 different counties) we become good friends and he got to know about my crush (although he was very jealious), anyway they came foe a week and on the last day i could not sleep due to them leaving and cryed so much after they left, we then kept in touch through mail and chat, i told him i was over my crush and 2 weeks later he told me he liked me, we then meet again in april, both went back to our home country as a holiday and saw each other again.

its been almost 8 months now and sometimes i get really scared if the distance between us will actually separate us. I told him how i feel and all he said was "do you trust me?" i said yes and he was very conforting however i still have concerns and i just wanted to get a few more opinions!
both of is are 16 by the way


RELLY!?! OMG no way! u must be older!!!:suith: :suith:

B lyke on titanic "jaaaack jack ill neva let u go" nd ur true luv will last 4 eva.


U nd this guy uve ceen 1nse 4ev@
Reply 8
Shreerac1
RELLY!?! OMG no way! u must be older!!!:suith: :suith:

B lyke on titanic "jaaaack jack ill neva let u go" nd ur true luv will last 4 eva.


U nd this guy uve ceen 1nse 4ev@


lol that me laugh!! but im sure she does not want a titanic sad ending!